How do you handle people who get angry very easily?

@ajithlal (14716)
India
May 18, 2012 11:40pm CST
Sometimes we come across people who get angry very easily? Have you been on such situation and how did you handled it?
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9 responses
• India
19 May 12
actually i have faced this kind of situation in many times in my life . but i had suffered seriously because of this and now i am taking very care of this kind of things . it is a tough situation for every person who face this kind of issues. may be i think this nature of people has a short temper and they do not now who to control this kind of problems. may be direct consult to the doctor is the best thing regarding to this matter. if they could not controlled means they surely will become psychotic in their future . it is a serious and dangerous problem
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 May 12
I think it is hard to control some people when they get anger and it is better not to argue with them.
• India
20 May 12
i think argue means we are indirectly increase their anger further ,
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 Sep 12
I also think that aruging makes the situation worse and also make the person who is anger more anger.
@allknowing (137961)
• India
19 May 12
I always walk away from the scene and let matters cool down. I have always observed that time plays a soothing role in such circumstances.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 May 12
I also think that the best solution is to walk away from the situation.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
14 Jan 13
I think if we stay more on the situation we tends to get more agitated and might get the other person also more and more agitated.
@allknowing (137961)
• India
14 Jan 13
In every walk of life time plays a soothing role.
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@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
19 May 12
Short tempered individuals get heated up quite fast than ordinary humans. However it is evident that such people cool down all too soon than we could hope for. In fact, quick anger is not synonymous with unruly behavioral patterns. It is just emotions which gain ground when such people get angry. They are a harmless lot...sudden shift of mood from anger to sobriety in a short spell of time.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
20 May 12
I also think most think most short tempered people are not bad people and it is the anger that is the problem with them and I think they are harmless and need something to control their anger.
@alquizar (480)
• Philippines
19 May 12
I always encountered people who easily get angry.I am a type of person that I am proud to say to my self that I know how to deal with different types of people.As much as possible I should prevent my self to that person and I tried not to argue with that person.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
30 Sep 12
I think most probably we should try to keep quiet and try not to make them more angry when people are angry.
• India
19 May 12
I have a lot of friends and all of them are really cool and they do not become angry at others for simple reasons. If i have a such a friend i should handle them with love. A simple smile can make angry to fall down. So always keep a smile at them and this can handle the situation quite eaisly.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
20 Jun 12
I think it is always great to have friends who are coll and does not get angry. I also agrees that a smile can handle a situation better and all people loves smiles.
• United States
19 May 12
I try not to deal with these kinds of people if at all possible. People who are quick to anger are not always the most reasonable or likely to actually listen to any side of an argument other than their own. If I do wind up in a situation with these kinds of people, I simply tell them I will not get into it with them and walk away. I'm not going to get myself worked up and stressed out dealing with someone like that.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 Nov 12
I think it is always good to listen and to be calm and not to provoke the situation. I think sometimes it will be stress dealing with such people and sometimes we also will be provoked and get angry when dealing with such kind of people.
@roberten (3128)
• United States
19 May 12
I do not argue with them, it is very difficult to have an argument by yourself. I do not engage them not do I let them engage me. I avoid eye contact and only reply when necessary. I treat them as air, dismissive and detached. I am not rude, but more neutral. I speak softly; the louder they get the sofer my voice becomes. These tactics have worked for me but you have to develop your own working solutions.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 May 12
I also think it is not to good to argue because most times arguments cause lots of hurt and bad situation. I think it is good to speak in a soft voice.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 May 12
Most of the time when I encounter a person that gets angry really easily and seems to blow off their steam for what seems like no reason at all, I won't spend time with those people. For example, there is a girl that I used to be friends with and I don't really talk to her anymore because she is the kind of person that thinks that the world should revolve around her and when it doesn't she will start some drama to make it all about her and I choose to not spend time with her anymore.
• Mexico
21 May 12
Hi ajithlal: It's difficult to deal with this people. I try to be neutral and not attract discussions with this people but probably we could not be friends because I simply don't want negativity in my life. ALVARO