Feeling sad..

You're welcome, inertia4. I'm glad to know that you have found someone but I also agree with you on the fact that those people who were close to heart and have hurt us will always leave us wounded and those scars will always be there in some part of our heart but we always have an option to move on and continue with our future and try to live the life with positive attitude..All the best

Hi inertia4, Yes, it's not the things that we miss, it's the behavior of that person that hurts, when a stranger tries to hurt you, you may resist him/her but when people close to you try to hurt you like this, you certainly feel like losing everything. I've been through such situations in my life and I know how it feels. At this time, my situation is a bit different but the result is same. I trust in time, it heals everything, I'm sure it'll take care of my tough times as well. I wish you good luck and I'm sure you'll find someone whom you can trust and who can take care of you and you get back all the happiness in your life. All the best intertia4, Thank you for your response!

Thank you. I do have someone now, and I do trust her. And the best part of being with her is that we knew each other years ago, so it was an automatic thing. But I still have those feelings from all those years of marriage with the evil ex and it does not seem to be going away. I have no actual feelings for her, but it is the resentment.

Hi Nikhabele, That's true, it's something that everyone is going through, sometimes, you can manage it and there are times when you feel you just can't. I'm also trying to keep my head above water, don't know exactly, what to do, when it's from outside, you can think of something, when it's from within, it's tough to decide what will be the right thing to do. I've decided to just keep trying and leave it on time until I have some better options. Thank you for your reply Nikhabele, wish you all the best and good luck for your life.

All of us have to face problems raising in our life everyday. So that we just be strong and do step by step to solve problems only. Wish you guys will pass this hard time soon.

Thanks for your response, ryanong. Such times in our life shows us that our life is not just by chance, it does have some purpose, I do hate this situation but at the same time, I do expect something meaningful (good/bad) to happen for me. I feel, from here I can only have good things in my life, I'll just wait and watch.

You are always welcome

Hi IntrovertShy, I've got some very good suggestions in this discussion and I've also come to know that it's with everyone and they are handling such tough situations in their own way, yours is also a good way of thinking, I will remember the last line: "All comes in a small thing before it becomes big" Thanks for your response and all the best !!!

it's good to have a friend you can trust and ask for help when you really neede it... I am happy for you! Sometimes it's really hard to move forward when you don't have anyone beside you to support or even help you make it through. we just have to open our problems to others for them to be able to help us...hopefully! It's really good to know that you have a friend to help you. just be sure to make your life work the right way. sometimes, friends can be angry as well and have limited patience, so be good to them as well...

Hi Annavi23, Good idea, guess what, I'm already at my friends room and will stay here for some time. I could have gone for some other rented room but emotionally it'll be too much to handle this time. I can feel a void within, I've been through tough times before but this time, it's more inside than from outside, when you feel that nothing can give you satisfaction or happiness that's when it starts to hurt. I'm trying to have hope, may be time will give some more options to me so that I can move forward with some positives. Thank you for your response, Annavi23

Hi ryanong, Yes, I've already done that but still I will not get a good room for myself for a few months. I'm okay with that, my first priority is to get rid of this current situation and as you said, it can be done only by tackling issues one by one. Thanks for your response, ryangong.

Ya, take it easy...You can pass this hard time soon. Best wish for you...

It's really tough to be in this kind of situation, people who are around me they don't feel any difference in my behavior but the changes that I can feel within are really frustrating, not getting sleep is one among those. Sometimes, I thank mylot website, it's a place where I can share all this and it really helps when people discuss it here. Time heals everything and I'm sure this situation will not last long. Thank you for your encouraging reply Lizomatic12, and wish you all the best for your life.

Hi JenInTN, Thanks for your response, even I'm trying to make the best out of the struggle. Yes, this time is not easy by any means but this time is teaching me so many things and I'm sure, it'll help me improve every moment. I'm trying to be positive, let's hope this tough time will be over soon.

This is something that I have to learn, saving money, it's been a few years since I'm working but never seriously thought of saving and I can see the result of that at this time in my life. Life is tough, someway or another everyone has so many issues, but by sharing our way of handling issues, we can learn how to tackle tough situations. Thanks for your response, CaptAlbertWhisker.