are girls weird or really sensitif ?!!
By westiti
@westiti (26)
Morocco
May 20, 2012 1:14pm CST
The other day I was with my girlfriend at the beach and we passed a very good day, we swimed together, lunched together and we played together, it was was beautiful.
My little friends and I have a good habit is to chat each night by SMS before to go to sleep, when I asked her how did was the day, from all the beautiful things we did together, she rememberd one thing: she told me that she really liked that I washed her feet to remove the sand from them, when I asked her why, she answered me "we girls observe things that are for you ordinary, but for us they are very important."
I admit that when I washed her feet it was spontaneous and normal, but I wonder why it was the only thing that really touched her. So I'm asking you, especially girls, to explain to me why, and thanks in advance.
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8 responses
@mansha (6298)
• India
21 May 12
In our culture its other way around,m we wash guys feet and guys are not supposed to , but its real sweet that you did what you did. Every girl like to be pampered thats all,and for her taking care of her ion that way made her feel; special, but if it was me I would have been happier if it was done without asking but then I would do the same for the guy too. Important thing is if it brought you two closer , if it did then its okay as each girl is different but yes we do like being taken care of without having to instruct the guy.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
21 May 12
Well, I'm not sensitive because I want to be. I am sensitive because I am Bipolar Type II- Manic Depressive (this comes from all of the horrible things I have gone through), so when people say things to me, then it will affect me more, and I have Allergic Broncho Pulmonary Aspergillosis which means that I am prone to being more hypersensitive because anything can pretty much aggravate my senses.
Now, I don't know about other women because I know some women who are tough as nails, and then I do know some women who are so sensitive they start getting into the fetal position whenever a man says one little negative thing to them. I just think that every woman is different and it all depends on the woman. There some women are bad@$$ and some women who are delicate flowers. It's just how women are.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
21 May 12
I will say though that women love it when men do nice things for them, and when they do what they ask for. Any woman appreciates that, or should appreciate that at least.
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
21 May 12
We're just really sensitive. :) Things that you do out of the blue touch us, if you run to get us stuff even if we know we can do it for ourselves, when guys buy us things, when guys talk about things that you don't usually talk about to your other friends. We notice the little things that tell us we are in the thoughts of thaT person. And we really appreciate stuff like that. For us, it's really sweet to be thought of that way, and we appreciate that stuff a lot.
@spazz435 (322)
• United States
20 May 12
Well, whether you are a man or woman; everyone is different and have different feelings about certain things. She might have liked the fact that you washed her feet more because swimming and playing are everyday things in someones life. Where as, do you get your feet washed by someone else everyday? No. That's why I would have thought about it that way. I like the spontaneous not everyday things done to me more than anything else. It's what makes a day special and most memorable.
@kajal1992 (354)
• India
21 May 12
when you have washed her feet may be it touched her hear so she told you that and felt most good, as you expect more from your girlfriend same with her. Girls always see how much are you caring about her , how much importance is she in your life. I think you are a lucky man she loves you a lot. Don't take that deeply.
@Oz2991 (16)
• United States
21 May 12
I think with your gesture you exposed her to view you as self-less. Meaning you took the time to do something she could have did , and made her feel comfortable with you being in control. A lot of men don't realize how something as simple as being self-less will eventually give you more cool points to a female than any gift or materialistic thing.
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
20 May 12
Well it's often said it's the little things that make life worth living. Even though it may not have seemed like a big deal to you at the time, she took note because it was a small subtle sweet thing that you could do for her. I don't know if it's just a girl thing, I think maybe it's just a sensitive people thing. People who notice the small gestures can come in either gender.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
21 May 12
Girls are very sensitive and when her boy friend do something odd thing that too first time in her life when she was with her boy friend (in your case you had washed her feet), they take it to the heart. This is happen only when she is deeply in live with you and she really likes you and wants to be in your company for more time.