ready for love
By newlyaldrin
@newlyaldrin (41)
Philippines
May 20, 2012 1:40pm CST
when can you say you're ready?
when can you say that the time i just right?
how can you say that he/she is the right person?
honestly, i wonder how others consider situations that make them ready for a fall.
in my experience, there is certain reoccurring feel everytime, i feel that it's the right time.
it's that certain feeling of lightness. im really struggling to describe this but this is how i feel, things starts to go slow motion. it's a bit odd but that certain feeling reoccurs only on my serious relationships.
what about yours? anything to share?
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6 responses
@preciousjayje (125)
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21 May 12
I always have told to myself that i will be who I am when I am with my boyfriend. There I will know the reactions of my lover. There I could compare him to the guy that i really wanted to be with or to the guy that deserves my love.
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
20 May 12
I think when a person knows what they want in another person, have good boundaries set up, have acquired good self-esteem, and have their self respect in check then they may be ready for a relationship. The time is right when these things feel comfortable and you are ready to share your life with someone. And you know for sure what type of person you want, and what you expect from them. The more things you know and understand about yourself make it that much easier to have a healthy relationship with someone else. As for me, I am not in a relationship and would rather not be. I am helping my daughter raise her son and have to room in my life for a fellow.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
21 May 12
Love come to us by natural way...so that we can't say we are ready or not ready for love. In here, i talk about single guys. Just one day we realize that we love a guy...and hope that both will be in love. if we just think oh, i am not ready yet, we may lost a chance to get a nice love. Sometime, we think oh, i am already for love...and get in love but it may a wrong way...
Let love come to us by natural way...
@sherrybelle (707)
• United States
20 May 12
I think it's possible to over analyze it. When the feeling is mutual between yourself and the other person you know you've hit the target.
When you meet someone and each of you is able and willing to give and receive love it's in your best interest to follow your heart.
Love is such a gift and a blessing that it doesn't make sense to hold out until everything is perfect because perfection might not happen.
Go for it!
@rewardsinlife (1132)
• United States
20 May 12
I think you only know when the time is right when you have met that person. You can't say that you are ready, and go out trying to find a person that you like and hope they are ready too.
