My wife possessive
By advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
May 21, 2012 9:52pm CST
When you at office, how many times your wife calling you ?
In one day, my wife can calling me in 3 times. One time, when I'm arrived at office, at lunch time and rest, and then when I would come home from office.
It's annoying? honesty, I think is very annoying. I'm feel my life continues to be controlled and supervised by his.
Is anyone think my wife has a possessive nature? I think, my wife does have a possessive nature
5 responses
@krupar5 (287)
• United States
23 May 12
I do not know if she is possesive, but I do not call my husband that many times. I call in the morning because I am still in bed when he gets up for work and only if I need to tell him something. I usually text him though if it isn't important. Is she working? Maybe she is bored and needs to talk to someone. I am a stay at home mom and for the first several weeks I was bored and did call my husband a lot until I was able to make friends and drive again. She can also be insecure.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
23 May 12
My wife worked as a teacher at a school. I think she did not particularly feel lonely and also I think, many her friends who can invited to talk at the times she recess.
I'm also don't know her reason often calling me when I was working. If she calls me to important things, I can certainly understand, but she calling me to the things that are not critical like as only ask, "what are you doing now?", "Are you have eaten?", "What time you go home?" ....
@krupar5 (287)
• United States
25 May 12
I can understand why that can be annoying. I am sorry you feel that way. Perhaps talking to her again about it. Could it be that she does not feel you care for her as you used to? Try writing a note to her to surprise her. Perhaps she is a little sad about things and just wants to know you will always be there. Maybe surprise her by calling before you are at lunch. Sometimes we, women, just need a special moment to feel appreciated and loved. I am not sure. All you can do is perhaps try talking again. Good Luck!
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
I've told to her about my discomfort on his attitude which often call me when I'm there in my office, but she just back asked to me .. why ?
@rkennedee (333)
•
22 May 12
I think that not being possessive. I'm a wife also and calling our husbands is just our way of telling them that they are not forgotten and that we think of you all the time. Giving us a minute of your time is not that bad because you spend over 8 hours in the office.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
For me, it's still annoying because at home we have met and talked. In the bedroom also met .. also met at the dinner table .... there 24 hours in one day and I just want enjoying my work hours at the office which is only 8 hours 
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
26 May 12
Do you think she has a reason for checking on you that often at work?
Was there any incident that sort of make her loss her trust on you?
Perhaps, your wife just needs to be reassured of your faithfulness. You can tell her straight, and in a courteous way about how you feel about her calling you a lot.
But you know, some husbands actually appreciate their wives calling them once in awhile.
