cheating your patner?????

Same with you. I believe that when you commit your self to love your partner, you should also pledge your fidelity. Or if you don't feel the same way as before or if the love is not there, you should have the courage to break it with your partner and leave the relationship to avoid cheating.

In my experience, i found more than one cases in my life. I just dunno what to say about this. The only thing we should do is just awake and carefully choose our partner. No all are bad, some particular people who cheat themselves. It is not easy to find life partner but easy to far away from them. It is not such a good thing in love, cheating.

Something would certainly have to be missing in the relationship in the first place in order for cheating to ever be a thought. if there was total satisfaction in the relationship, cheating should be the last thing on your mind.

I think that people who cheat do not really love each other. And there is no respect between them, either. I am quite conservative, and I believe that being faithful is one of the most important things in a relationship. Though, sometimes, I do understand people if they cheat. It may be of revenge, it may be because they don't feel complete, and still they love their partners and could not give them up. It is so confusing to me...

I agree with you. In my own opinion,I think they making a big mistake by staying together just because of the kids and to keep the family intact even without love and trust. In my own experienced my parents are still together even though they dont love each other. It hurts so much to us, as their children when we see our mother suffering from our unfaithful father,but she kept the family together and accepted all the pains just to have a father figure. That's not fair. For me loyalty, trust, respect, commitment, fidelity and love are the criterias of a healthy relationship, without one of those, there is no reason to be stay in a relationship.

Hi friend, in my opinion cheating our partner is not a good thing. Every one expects our partner must be loyal to us, in the same way we must be loyal to our partner and avoid cheating. If your partner cheats you, if he realize his fault and seeks forgiveness for his fault, you can forgive him for your kids. But still he is continuing his activity better to keep distance from this kind of cheating person and raise our kids being a single parent

Let's call her a "friend" of mine...she has been dissatisfied with her partner for a very long time. They are paying off a house and have 2 kids. She has a boyfriend whom she sees on the weekends, goes away with and takes holidays with...sometimes with her kids. I think she's being terribly greedy and selfish. The new bloke doesn't want to be lumbered with her and the kids full time and she can't have the lifestyle she has if she leaves the family home so she gets her own way. What sort of message is she giving the children?

The only time i cheat is when i caught the other one cheating then after that all is fair. I will myself cheat then because im in search of another. If the orginal cheater wants to stick around til then fine but they are told iam searching for their replacemnet.

There is always second and third and so on chance available depends on how one part could bear and take the situation. If one could no longer stay in the relationship as the other party refused to quit the lies then I think the bold step is needed. I will feel the same like you. How could one take it when there is nothing between them anymore?Both sides will suffer and this will not going to give any advantage to anyone involved. They need to think out solution for everyone good.(^^)

Hi Aarti, Its not a love when someone gets involved in many relationships at same time.I also know few people who say they are in love with 3~4 people at same time.I know why they do that? That's their habit and no body can't help it.They certainly get it realized them self when they get the same treatment from someone else.

i have to ask..r they married? if they are then do the fallowing: but keep in mind. im no expert. this is just my own opinion. well i could understand y a person goes wayward with their spouse. some say they fall out of love. i say year right! maybe theyre just using that as an excuse for something bigger. marrige is NOT easy. the spark fades or i fell out of love with u...those are just excuses. i would say 'man up ppl'.. be an adult and deal. if u lose the spark, find it-together! trust me, i know! this man he infuriates me to no end and he likes it. it makes him laugh which annoys me like a dog barking at night or the way he eats with his mouth open...yeah sure i wanns kill him and i tell him. i cool of while he thinks of ways to make up his wrong(s) or whatever. i think communication is a big key here. however if he beats u or ur kids BY ALL MEANS GET OUT!!!! and dont heed my words. if the guy is a lazy *#*#*#* ...i dont know what to say to that but tell this person u know this.

Obviously people who cheat their family do not care and think. They just too busy to think how to have fun with their new lover. They forgot how they hurt people who love them

Cheating is horrible. It's awful. If you are in a real, committed relationship, there is no reason, or excuse for you to cheat. It is disgusting.

It is best to commit to a partner and stick with that partner. If I were being cheated on, I would immediately part ways with my partner because obviously your partner doesn't love you truly.

This is one that is really tough for me because I have to admit that I've been the one that has philandered on my husband. I am not saying that I've done the right thing, but I do believe that there are reasons that I did what I've done. The reason that I won't take the step of leaving my husband is for the sake of our children and also the fact that he does have cancer. The reason that I did cheat on him is because he has cheated on me to a certain extent by being hooked on prescription pain pills. Now, this is all something that is in the past and our relationship is healing.

I will tell you what happened in my life.My girl friend started to move with another guy when she was loving me.When I came to know about it,that guy became as a brother to her and I should adjust with that.And guess what,just about two months later,she ditched me for fighting with her for giving more importance to him than him.She said cooly and ahe put all the fault and guilt on me and went away.Guess what,after 1 week of her breakup with me,she told that she is loving this so called brother and going to marry her.So well played to get all that she wanted from me and then cheating me to go to another guy.I cant tell that she liked someone else more than me.But hiding that fact and getting all the love from me as long as she wanted and then going away,I have no words to spell my anger for her for hurting me. Such things are happening everywhere.Only we have to be careful.

Dear I cannot see any right thing leaving a family for the sake of one's hapiness... specially when kids are concerns..