How do get rid of my girlfriend
@mrnischalgurung (424)
India
May 22, 2012 1:10am CST
Can anyone give me some tips how to get rid of my girlfriend and breakup with her. I want her to breakup with me so how can I compell her to leave me without hurting her feelings. I would really appreciate all suggestions
8 responses
@kajal1992 (354)
• India
22 May 12
what do you think love is so cheap? that whenever you want you will leave and whenever you want you will patch up? if you people have any problem then both try to sort out instead of going apart. Guys like you are sick about time pass.
@kajal1992 (354)
• India
22 May 12
Or better dump yourself in her eyes realize her that you don't love her, she will leave you , well whatever you should do she will get hurt if you leave her and if she loves you.
@mrnischalgurung (424)
• India
22 May 12
Wait a minute. First let me tell you that even a guy has a heart and if he's leaving a girl then there would probably be a reason. If the guys doesn't want to breakup hurting her, it means he still cares for me. But why breakup up if you care? Well it means that there is something very wrong with the relationship that he has to breakup and the reasons are personal. But before saying all guys are same and etc etc, better think the guy too may have pathetic conditions and pain
@kajal1992 (354)
• India
22 May 12
well sorry, the way you asked the question is wrong, at least include the matter "why" then we people will understand your personal problem. whether she is having affair with someone then talk with her openly, if you have any other problem then just talk buddy, if you both love each other truly then you both can share your problem. Break up is very large word so if anybody will hear it indeed it will give a jerk in mind. sorry if I have hurt you.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
If you don't want to prolong the agony then better tell her the truth instead of letting her believe that you still love her. 
When my ex wanted to dumped me, but couldn't, because of another girl, he usually initiates petty quarrels and tried isolating himself to me. Since I believe that he's no longer happy with me, I dumped him. Few months that the other girl and my ex were together, they were fine, but later broke up. He then wanted me back but it's already too late.
Be sure that your sure with your decision.
When my ex wanted to dumped me, but couldn't, because of another girl, he usually initiates petty quarrels and tried isolating himself to me. Since I believe that he's no longer happy with me, I dumped him. Few months that the other girl and my ex were together, they were fine, but later broke up. He then wanted me back but it's already too late.
Be sure that your sure with your decision. 
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
26 May 12
I would tell her that you are not happy with her having an affair and that you want to break up. If she is having the affair then more than likely she won't even have her feelings hurt, but if she does well she will think twice again afterward when she wants to cheat on her next love. You don't deserve someone who has been cheating on you. Perhaps tell her that you're just not in love anymore, too. It would be unfair to you both to go on together if there is no more love in the relationship unless you think you can still work it out.
@eihjaeiann (81)
• Philippines
22 May 12
just tell her directly. it's hard for us girl about that situation. but i think its better to tell her the truth. it really hurts but i think it's the best way. right?
@nonersays (3335)
• United States
22 May 12
You are NOT going to break up with her without hurting her feelings. Not if she really cares for you.
You're choices are to be a man about it, and tell her its over and why, and deal with a few tears or Be a jerk in every way possible to get her to break up with you instead of telling her the truth.
Either way will end up hurting her.
@limechavez05 (67)
• Philippines
22 May 12
Please don't term it as "get rid of", sorry however as a girl that term is just a bit offending for me. There's no other way to break-up with her but to tell her directly that it's just not working anymore. There's no easier way, because if you prolong the relationship, you just prolong the pain, the frustrations, etc.
