I was accused of something i never do.
@preciousjayje (125)
May 22, 2012 8:25am CST
My father knows that even how complicated my family is, I always stayed at the center. Even all of my siblings are now filling cases against mom I never go with them for I don't want to hurt anybody else of my family and still hope that everything will be ok.
One day my dad came to me and accused me for stealing the Birth Certificate of my half-sister and gave it to mom which i really never do. He never believed me anymore for he believed more to his concubine. He insisted that it was me, but my sister knew that it wasn't really me.
I felt so hurt and down, so I decided to go for him to believe that what i said was true.
When I was about to depart he said sorry to me for he was wrong. I forgave him. I'm now staying far from them but he knows that I never plant hatred towards him.
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7 responses
@welkin (106)
• China
22 May 12
Friend,you're so kind a son!Your father must be proud that he has a son like this.From what you said,I can see that you really care much about every one of your family.
I'm sorry to hear that you were accused of something you never did.And I admire your action to make your father believe what you said.The outcome is OK,but I know you didn't feel well when being misunderstood.I also had the experience of being accused like this before.I made the truth clear,too.So we're two people who have the same misfortune sympathize with each other,aren't we?LOL...
You are honest and brave.I'm sure you will do well in your life.Best wishes to you,friend!
@preciousjayje (125)
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22 May 12
I just hope that i was really a son, because dad listened more to his only son, but sad to say I'm not.
They said I'm emotional and weak but i think you are not like that. LOL..
You are more brave than I am. :)
Best wishes to you also, friend. . .
@welkin (106)
• China
22 May 12
Cheer up,friend!We should be equal.Everybody should be equal in this world.You have your own character,and this means you are special.I believe that your father will listen to you one day.
Be optimistic and strong.Live your life and enjoy it.I wish you good luck in your life!:)
@oindy54 (3445)
• India
22 May 12
Often such things happen in people's lives.One may be blamed for something he did not do at all.It is unfortunate to know that this happened with you.It is,however,good to know that you forgave those who mistrusted you.Forgiveness is always better than nurturing a grudge.I hope everything will turn out well in your life and all your problems will finally disappear.
@preciousjayje (125)
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22 May 12
Everything will surely not be fixed tomorrow but still I'm hoping that in few years to come everything will be solved.
Thank you so much for your response, friend.
Stay Blessed! :)
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
22 May 12
I am willing to take the punishment for something I have said or done. If i can talk the talk then i have to be able to walk the walk too. When I am acused od doing or saying something that is untrue, then I feel that I have been the one to be wronged. It's bad enough to live with a wrong you have committed but when it is falsely put against you then it makes the trauma of it all the more belittling.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
22 May 12
It's good that you are able to stay away from them for a while. Sometimes distance and time are needed to sort out these kind of things. Along with your forgiving and understanding nature, hopefully relationship with your family will be better and all the hurtful things will mend.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
22 May 12
I'm so sorry for what you have been through. You are right in positioning yourself at the middle, it will only make it worse if you chose to side one party but I believe, there is always a time for you need to speak out what you believe. Communication is the key to all relationship. Lay your cards on the table and every one should come clean. Fix the problem ASAP so that hatred for each other will eventually vanished and harmony will reign. It takes time my friend. Good luck, may you have peace in your family and most of all - your peace of mind.
