Getting cold feet before getting married
By aquinoma05
@aquinoma05 (162)
Philippines
May 22, 2012 1:06pm CST
I'm getting married in less than a month now but I'm not that much excited anymore. Compared to the past months when we first started planning, something changed and made me scared about getting married. I know they say that guys mostly got that so called "cold feet" before the wedding day but mine is different.. because I'm a girl not a guy... We are not experiencing any issues and everything is working good as it is planned.
Maybe what I would like to know is... do girls or woman also does "sometimes" undergo this what is so called "Cold feet" before getting married?
2 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8692)
• Netherlands
5 Jun 12
They say it's normal.. normal in the way it's not abnormal I guess. But I do think it's a good time/moment to ask yourself if this is really what you want for you now.
I am not talking about the lack of exitement since you can't be exited 24/7 but if you are ready enough already to give up a part of your life, interests, goals etc. Since this is exactly what will happen. Write down your fears and discuss them with whom concerns. Try to have a look at what you wrote down from a distance and ask yourself what is really important to you, what not and what you can do to make it not happen, or less worse or..
The only thing I did not like before I got married was that it did not feel like my party plus (I married abroad) there was nobody there for me.
