Good Advice to the Wrong Person

The information given by anyone, no matter what the circumstances, can really be potentially helpful for sure. There are just rather going to be many times where we just see something and perhaps it might not work now. But perhaps in the future, it will work. When an emergency occurs, we may remember that advice and apply it, to avert the situation. You never know when something may come in handy down the line. There are just going to be many times where something, you might not understand the full potential of it, until much longer down the line, when things really just come right into the picture. Then when that happens, you'll be rather glad that you remember what you did remember.

You are right, well there is a particular situation say love life, there is this person who utter non-sense about being in a relationship, I don't like the man especially how his partner, although I don't care what he does, but by seeing him and listening to him, I am surprise that I can relate to his thought and his way. I did not tell him that I am learning from him and actually applying his mistakes and good deeds, and then I just ignore him, I wonder now where is that man, I am actually doing good in my love life though. Just to be clear, not all of his ways are really fit to be called a good man though so I just ignore them.

Very accurate sentiments for sure. The thing with advice in a nutshell is, if it is something that might be able to fit, consider it. Or even if you hear it, you might be able to get thrown on the right track, even though what is being told is not really something that is going to fit you. Or at least right at the moment when you think about it. I do agree one hundred percent that a lot of the advice is something that may turn out to be something that is essential for the future. And just because today is not that day, does not mean that day would never come. That is why all advice is something that will be a great thing to hear, to listen to and really to adapt to at all possible times. It is at least worth an ear if someone takes the time to give it. Whether it will be followed, well that's up to the person who is listening after all.

To me it get goes back to good brainstorming exercises. In which all ideas are considered equally good, and you don't stop to look at them until the session is over, if you look at asking for advice like that sometimes you can hit upon the diamond. But back to something else you said in the OP, I agree that you can't blame your hardships on other people just because they gave you bad advice.

In the end, it is about considering and just really trying to get the most out of everything that we have. There are times where we are going to give a nice helping hand right to really lead people right through. And then there are going to be times where that helping hand will assist them. And often times, it will be something that will slide right out of them. The fact that the advice was given and it can be something that could potentially be the first step right towards the right path, is rather adequate right in many ways. There are times where it will just lead to something rather great and just something that will give you that nudge right forward. That nudge that could be the great thing or it might be a false start.