Happy and sad at myLot
By hsofyan
@hsofyan (3446)
Jakarta, Indonesia
May 23, 2012 12:30am CST
Discussion on myLot a lot of fun, especially if done politely and wisely. But, there are also people out of control in the discussion. It sometimes makes me sad.
I think the older age should guide the younger people. People of higher education to teach people with low education. Want to know and learn the culture of others, and much more ...
Should be avoided attitude of superiority, was the most intelligent, self-righteous, and much more ...
I'm sure you've felt it, but just buried hearts, and avoid certain people, even not been myLot again.
MyLot Admin should monitor these symptoms, and perform moderation, so myLot be a fun place.
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14 responses
@allknowing (136362)
• India
23 May 12
myLot is an ocean with every kind of fish. It is left to the users to learn the art of swimming in this ocean and come out unscathed. There is nothing any one can do but the individual alone can use the judgement that is right.
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@allknowing (136362)
• India
23 May 12
But here myLot's guidelines will take care of that. You only have to make use of them.
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@shwetat195 (628)
• India
23 May 12
m sorry to interfere in this discussion of yours, however i could not resist myself from commenting and actually agreeing to allknowing completely.
@yimsiupang (237)
•
24 May 12
It was yesterday i first joined mylot,i feel mylot is a lesring english excellent forum,you can make a lot of foreign friends, i am not feeling any unpleasant,in fact a long as our own mind stable,nothing standing in other people consider,perhaps we everybody will be very happy,you think?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
24 May 12
MyLot is fun for me. Because, MyLot always makes me a little bit forgotten, all my problems. MyLot is also a place for me, looking for the solution of the problems I had. If there is discussion, which I think is not right, I better not to respond, and look for another discussion. I am sure, admin MyLot, have done their best, for this site.
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
23 May 12
hi hsofyan,
I had the same feelings when I was new here but I get used to it
It is really sad that there are people like them but we can't change it because we come from different part of the world with different views.
Try to ignore them and enjoy mylot as much as you can.
happy mylotting
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
24 May 12
Yes, you are correct. We came up with a difference, and it's not wrong. Without difference, we can not discussion. Discussions are polite and elegant that we expect.
In my opinion, the discussion is now better than when I was here in 2008.
I think that improvement should start from ourselves and do it now.
Thank you for sharing, and happy mylotting too...
@thedaddym (1731)
• United States
23 May 12
Unfortunately in any community there are going to be those that do not act with dignity or respect for others. It is an unfortunate experience of life. It would be nice if others attempted to help people rather than put them down, but unfortunately it looks like some parents did not do a very good job of teaching thier kids good manners. I do hope you will continue to enjoy much more pleasure here on mylot.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
23 May 12
I had one with my latest topic.
A righteous one (feels like huh) so- I prefer to ignore that mylotter.
Just avoid those ones, although we cannot totally avoid.
But, take note of those kind and try to avoid their path.
@neelia_lyn (2003)
• Philippines
23 May 12
MyLot is always fun. Just choose to have fun rather than to get irritated or angered by others. I've missed mylot - been away for 2 months.
Hope you enjoy and have fun!
- been away for 2 months.
Hope you enjoy and have fun!
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@magicchou (163)
• China
23 May 12
You have a good point!
Since I would like to answer question, I rarely ask questions on the website. I prefer to answer peoples questions. But I do notice such phenomenon, you are great to mention it here.And your suggestions are great!myLot admin need to take some actions.
Have a good time!
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@yel812 (174)
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23 May 12
I had never encounter who makes me feel angry or sad just by reading their post. All the people I met here are friendly. But if I ever got to bump to somebody who's not amiable, I'll just ignore them and go on. I think it doesn't make sense if you let other people get in to you, well i'm the kind of guy who really don't care about other people because for me there are so much things that matter other than that. Guess we all just stay cool huh~
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@sourabharoy1992 (730)
• India
23 May 12
Hello friend,
I also face the same problem my friend. You are right. I also agree with you. But it is a learnfull site and paying site.
Have a nice day.
@raganator27 (104)
• United States
23 May 12
Mylot is absolutely great, but try yahoo contributors, it pays really good!
