Am i right?

I completely agree with you. She should tell the judge everything that she knows, how her husband has been acting, and keep records of how many times he actually keeps his child.

that is exactly the plan! i cant imagine if im not living with my daughter.. damnn.. i will die!!!

*when he is suppose to take her and he doesn't, and the times that he does.

Just explain to her very well about the matter. What is good if the person we cherish was betray us

its about the same with syariah law.. my daughter is 6. i also might have slimmer chance if im married to other guy. That why i think i shud get the custody 1st, then only i can consider about getting married again.. Owhh.. but my daughter always ask for siblings.. sometimes i really pity her coz she just alone.

Im sure of that.. im waiting for the day when i reminisce about this chapter and my life, and i hope i will get to be proud that i manage to go thru the hard time..

Thanks momo, i really appreciate your advise and support. Sometime he really did makes me so down.. even i have told myself so many times not to fall for that.. Relation sometime can get so weird. The funny part is we still talk like normal even we hate each other..

Yes talking like normal is the best thing to do. He will probably want to talk to you more to see if his threats are bringing you down. Be very cheerful and that will crush him. I have been hearing a lot of men and women doing injustice to their spouses lately. I really pity the 'victims'. The trick is to appear strong and fantastic eventhough you feel like falling apart. I think if you practice enough, you will be good in this trick. Maybe if he sees you cannot be crushed he will stop his nonsense in threatening you. Many people think that online earning is not sustainable. I think otherwise, especially your methods. Remember that Islam says "Fortune is in Gods hands". I think that if you manage to earn quite a lot through online, it will be ideal because you can stay home for your daughter. I read your responses to other people and I too want to earn my own money. Depending on other people make these people feel powerful which can hurt us. Take care cairalyssa. Its important that you take very good care of yourself to take care of your daughter.

it brings calm to read your response! thank you dear friend..

actually rite now im working with an oil & gas company, well just started about a month At the same time too.. still doing my online biz as well.. Money cant bring happiness but without it, happiness can be impossible too

thank you friends! working online at home doesnt promise me fixed income actually, that is why i decided to get a permanent job for temporary period until the issue resolve.. when i was young.. i never know how hard it is to be a single mom without any back up from anyone..