family or friend?

hai luvmusic they are...of course first is my family, they are the first who take good care and loved me, but in a relationship with my brothers and sisters we're not closed, we have own style of living and have own life and own world,.2nd my friends, they are with me in times my problem,and they are my family when im far away from my parents but when i met a gurl who rock my world, who change my outlook in life, who became my best friend,my sister my brother and became my world..they are all biggest who influenced my life but just in different ways..Thanks to my family,to my friends and to my gurlfriend. have a nice day

Well, for me,my friends play a huge role in my life. i love my family, but bacause we lack communications all the times, all the big decisions in my life were made by myself . i choosed my own major, choosed the the city where i spend my whole collegiate life, and so on. all i have to do is just tell them my decisions. And then,for the most time of my 20years,i stay with my friend and all kinds of other people because of study. and they really have a big influence on me.

I think that both your family and your friends should influence you in your life, but it is important that you get the balance right and don't find that you end up abandoning your family for the sake of what your friends are saying that you should do with your life. One of the things that I struggled with in my teenage years was the fact that my friends liked me to hang around with them every weekend, and my family were finding that I never had the time for them. Now, I make sure that I can find the time for both, because I know just how hard it can be when we don't feel as though our family are there for us when we really need them to be.