Do you hate Comparisons?

Actually every human is unique in his/her own kind..Comparisons cannot be done to each others ability..but sometimes parents are justified in comparing their kids,to become like a good person keeping in mind that they are not overburdened or pressured to be someone they are not.

I can say that I'm too fond of comparisons. There are times, when I don't mind so much, but it's not something that I particularly like, for the most part. I guess it does depend on the situation.

Hello Gelomon, Who hates being compared to? sometimes i am being compared to a lot of different people when ever i encounter them. even at work there are people that compares you base on your face, attitude or even talent. but most specially the bad attitudes that you possess too. but that's their personal opinion and it's something that we shouldn't take it negatively. who knows one day they might compare us to some one who is best.

I hate it when Im being compared to a person better than I am and I dont even feel good being compared to a less one. I mean for me its a rude thing. To compare people, we all are unique, with different views, and principle. Every person has the right to live a kind of life they wanted to live, to enjoy being themselves. Their appearance, attitude,views etc. So if we compare one person to another its just equal to a gesture of telling them to live their life how you wanted them to live.

People should be able to stand right on their own merits and live their own lives, without being compared and contrasted to someone else. But unfortunately, things don't seem to really work out quite that way. I have been compared to a couple of people, it is annoying. Especially when being anything like these people are the furthest thing from mind me. I just want to be who I want to be and its great that these people have had their success by doing this and this. But I really want to make my own path. If it is a path that I fail at, so be it, at least that it is my path. If it would be a path that I followed by others, and succeeded, so what, of course I succeeded. Comparing people never ends well but its a human thing to do.

It is just depends on the situation if in what side you are in. If you are kinda loser or a winner. Me, I experienced both. My other friends compared me to somebody that I am better than that person, yet, i remained humble and just thank them for their appreciations. When I was also compared and I was the loser, I just remained silent. If it's true then just accept it. If it's not just prove to them that you are not that kind of person that they are thinking.

I have been compared with classmates, friends, siblings, colleagues and even strangers all my life. Although it is not something that I particularly like in general, I do understand that sometimes comparisons are made to motivate us to improve ourselves. If a comparison is made regarding me and someone else in a positive manner, I tend to be a bit more willing to listen; but if it's done in a manner that reeks of degrading or putting me down, then I'll try my best to ignore the comparison, or if I can't, I would probably try to get a bit defensive. Obviously when people make a comparison involving us, they are not fully aware of the possible effects to us, so sometimes it might be worth our part to keep ourselves composed and handle the situation in a cool manner.

There is nothing wrong with comparison. We cannot avoid comments about comparison. It is fine with me if people compared me to others- especially if it will benefit me. What is wrong is, when people ask you to be someone else or imitate the other person.

hi there. we all hate being compared to other people due to a mere fact that we were all created uniquely. what i am trying to pin point is that we are basically different in every aspect, as an individual, as a whole. yes you are right, we constantly change, we strive to change to improve ourselves, to make ourselves better in order to adapt to life. right? one can never be compared to another, i guess that's why God created us with unique DNA's, we all have different fingerprints, see how amazing that is? it's one way to realize for all these people who love to compare people that it's never possible to compare 'cause one person can never be this other person nor that person - it simply and uniquely will always remain himself.

I hate comparisons because I believe everyone has a different or unique character and beauty. I' ve been always compared with my siblings, some people says my sisters are more pretty, taller, smarter and kind than me. Before I was affected but now I don't. I know they just a bullies person who seeks for some attentions. The good things that happened to me just because of being compared with my siblings I did my best to become successfull, happy, contented and prove to all of them that I am different and there is no reason or way to be compared to anybody.

Don't worry about comparisons, just get motivated about them!