Will you allow your FATHER to do everything he likes?

@babyEj (1522)
Philippines
May 23, 2012 5:03pm CST
Over the weekend, father and I were on trip going back to our hometown for a family reunion. He was so busy texting while everybody were having some chitchats. Until we get to grandmother's house, father's mom, still he's busy texting to someone. At first, I heard he was giving replies to mom's messages so I let him be. He always worry if he didn't have a load. Until his mobile gets crazy. He couldn't send the message because of signal failure, so then he got irritated. I got upset thinking how important is that message to be sent for. I was angry because I knew that the messages were for the textmate named , "Karen".
3 responses
• United States
23 May 12
I understand why you were mad, but hes an adult you cant do much about it he can do what he wants. Trust me though i would be mad too.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
23 May 12
Yea I know he knows better than me, but if I allow him to do that may lead infidelity. I can't bare it.
• United States
24 May 12
Dont take this wrong but, if thats what you are afriad of you are gonna have to talk to him, if hes going to do that though hes prolly already close and you might not be able to change his mind unless you really talk to him because men are stuborn as ever.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
24 May 12
This is now my dilemma, I look up to him and this makes me hard to confront him. :(
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
24 May 12
My father is not really fond of texting... You should ask him who that girl is though, maybe it really was important..but he should have prioritized the reunion.. I don't really need to do much since it is my mother who talks to my father when she thinks he is not doing something right.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
24 May 12
Oh.. yeah . This issues must between the two of them. Yet, I have heard mama complaining about this 'someone' my father is texting. I ignored that complain. But now I realized it is different when you have witnessed it.
@ivade0000 (225)
• France
6 Jul 12
Well, I think I will be probably feeling the same thing as you are. But the most important thing to do right now is to ask him about that woman and what kind of relation is between them.