Please share your bad expereince in life, and pls support my moral, am down
By loveshop
@loveshop (127)
Turkey
May 24, 2012 9:55am CST
hello all friends, am internet seller. Am not selling myself here. But just to tell you little a bit about me. Am married and staying in Turkey. We staying her for 1 year plus. My husband (Turkish)is businessman doing parts for cars, machine, factory part and etc. He just open the business about 2 years. But its not fair for him to work very hard, and he doesn't get pay most of his work, sometime he get paid very late like in 3 months plus time. We need money in our life to pay many things. Turkey expenses is so high. My business profit is not enough for us, since i sell with very low price, plus minus Paypal and etc. He keep bagging for his money from the factory that buying his parts. I feel so sad this thing happen to me in Turkey. I don't know how Turkish people deal with business but its really not our luck over here. I need support and advise from friends here. My family doesn't know this problem. I will not include family in this matter.
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7 responses
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
24 May 12
Hi Love! I'm sorry to know that. Just keep on going, every problem has a solution. Perhaps you could try other online earning aside from the one that you have right now. I hope you have your problem solved in the soonest possible time.
I also experience similar things when I was not employed yet, but everything just went fine. As I've said there is a solution to every problem. Keep on exploring for new ideas. I wish you all the best in life.
@loveshop (127)
• Turkey
25 May 12
Thanks for your advise Aries. I hope too this problem will solve fast. I have no idea about other earning site. Do you know any site in your mind? Its true as you said, every problem have the solution. I must be strong too to fight new life here. thanks again
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
25 May 12
Hello Loveshop! I think we are in some financial problems right now, in different degrees perhaps, but always bear in mind that everything is temporary. The factory paying him only in three months must also be suffering as well. I suggest that your husband should find other better buyers that will be prompt in paying. He has to find other ways of promoting his business to other companies because that factory is not doing him any good. I hope things will improve.
@loveshop (127)
• Turkey
26 May 12
I hope its temporary, and in this duration of temporary, i must be patience, thanks for your support dear. I did tell him to find other supplier (buyer), but for his business it is not easy to find buyer dear.
Anyway i will give him advise more about this since why we are doing business with people who does not pay, it is like we doing charity for free and we are starving our stomach our self and the buyer can easily live happily.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
25 May 12
Maybe you need to talk to your husband and relate to him what you have said here. You and him need money to live and Turkish expenses are high. Can he try to spend some time looking for work else where? Have you thought about going to work? You need to talk all this over with your husband and atleast get his stand on it all.
@loveshop (127)
• Turkey
25 May 12
We have talked and discuss about this matter. He don't want to surrender early about his business. The problem will be solve if the factory paid him according to the time promised. I thought of going for work, did apply but rejected since i am not Turkish citizen. Thanks dear for your concern. I much appreciate
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
24 May 12
Sorry to hear that it takes your husband so long to get paid. Keep working and doing the best that you can to earn more. You can try to find another part time job that will help you earn. I hope that things will start to improve for you.
@loveshop (127)
• Turkey
24 May 12
dominique, i am trying to find part time job here in Turkey, but the problem is i cannot speak Turkish, I am an Asian married Turkish. Last Monday i went for interview as English teacher, but they reject me cause no English TEFL/TESL certificate. I only based on my online selling shop with low profit. Thanks for your advise
@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
24 May 12
Hello loveshop 
Im sorry I cannot help much regarding to your situation, but I wish you the best in life and wish everything will turn to be good soon. I understand that its very annoying when people/factory buy our stuff in a large amount but they dont pay it straight away. Can you suggest your husband to ask an exact time for the factory when to pay the money, like 1 month or 2 months and if they pay late you will charge interest to them so they will think twice before paying late to your husband.
About my bad experience in life, I've passed several bad situations but everything is okay now. There was a time when my family's economic life at the bottom, my dad has to sold his company, his farming lands, sold the business he had and we did not have much money left we moved to smaller house, I've had to buy my clothes from second hand shop, i shared meal with my siblings. When I was at highschool I was not able to join the study tour program to Bali because my parents could not afford it, people laughed at us but Im glad everything is getting better now. God granted our pray, my dad now has a good job and then Im not only able to visit Bali but I had the chance to stay there for a year that was really great. We bought larger house, we used to share bed room now we are living in a 8 bedrooms house plus 2 living rooms and garage. Dont give up and believe that someday your life will turn to be good. Please remember there will be a rainbow after a heavy rain. I wish you the best in life.
Im sorry I cannot help much regarding to your situation, but I wish you the best in life and wish everything will turn to be good soon. I understand that its very annoying when people/factory buy our stuff in a large amount but they dont pay it straight away. Can you suggest your husband to ask an exact time for the factory when to pay the money, like 1 month or 2 months and if they pay late you will charge interest to them so they will think twice before paying late to your husband.
About my bad experience in life, I've passed several bad situations but everything is okay now. There was a time when my family's economic life at the bottom, my dad has to sold his company, his farming lands, sold the business he had and we did not have much money left we moved to smaller house, I've had to buy my clothes from second hand shop, i shared meal with my siblings. When I was at highschool I was not able to join the study tour program to Bali because my parents could not afford it, people laughed at us but Im glad everything is getting better now. God granted our pray, my dad now has a good job and then Im not only able to visit Bali but I had the chance to stay there for a year that was really great. We bought larger house, we used to share bed room now we are living in a 8 bedrooms house plus 2 living rooms and garage. Dont give up and believe that someday your life will turn to be good. Please remember there will be a rainbow after a heavy rain. I wish you the best in life. 
@Csyluckdays (169)
• Egypt
21 Sep 12
we face very bad days and very good ones.dont be down.we try to keep going.we must ask God for help.Allah
@sunil_goel007in (62)
• India
10 Jul 12
business always have its problems dear and everywhere
and yes other means of earnings do have the same
by the way y is ur name "loveshop"
