To go, or not to go?

Maybe you are afraid of being neglected. A feeling of being out of place. Since they didn't even thank you for paying for the place where the reunion is held.. If you don't feel like going, don't go. At least you did what you have to do for them. But for me, if I were you, I would go. And if I'm not happy with it, I'll tell them I'm not feeling well and go straight home. They won't force you to stay for sure. But let's just hope that the even will turn out to be a fun one. Think positive and everything will turn out right :)

Just go to meet your friends...and for sure you will be happy with it. Don't think too much more, just go...

Sometimes you have to follow your instinct. If you feel something weird and not comfortable- I suggest you don't go.

This could be a little bit tough on you. Sometimes, you feel like going 'cause you're also wondering how some of your former classmates look like and what's up with their lives and be able to share a little bit about you as well, but at times, you just get the feeling that it may not be worth it. It's always tough this way so what I can suggest is write down reasons why you would want to go to the said reunion and reasons why you won't. Then weigh them out and see which side wins. You might be surprised that after writing them all out, you will see what you actually really feel. Sometimes, you just got to itemized things and write them all out for you to see the reasons right in front of you instead of going and tossing reasons back and forth inside your head.

HI there chicgale, Well i o believe in premonitions and there was one time that i had to go to my step moms house and it was late and i was already dressed and had all my stuff packed but when i was about to leave the door i felt a weird feeling like something is pulling me back inside so i just left in the morning and as i heard the news there was a shooting at one of the areas that my probable ride would be passing to and some passengers got shot and did not make it to the hospital, so that was kinda weird and i think that the mystic beings had something to do with it.

I think you should definitely go, it's always fun to catch up with old friends. And if it turns out that you don't like them you can always make and excuse and leave early. If you haven't seen them since grade school chances are you wont't have to see them again if you don't want to so you have nothing to worry about if you decide you would rather not talk to them again.

I think it is always great to go to school unions and meet the old friends. I think you might paranoid in life, but you should try to go the union because you will chance to meet your school friends and you might get some good friends in your life from the school friends.

I didn't go to any reunions until the 40 year mark!!! And I probably won't go again. There wasn't one person there I wanted to hang out with....I take that back. There was one friend that I did reconnect with and we are still emailing etc.

If I were you, I would go. I don't know why you are confused. A grade school reunion sounds so much fun. Have a wonderful time!

It is really up to you. Sometimes, instinct is really helpful. Try to figure out what is your feeling is all about. Is it because of the place, the time, the people etc. There must be something you are worrying about and you have to find it out.

Why not go? You'll enjoy there no? I mean you get to see your old friends, talk to them and just to know how their life is. Be social. C'mon what's gonna happen. Be cool.

Just try going... it would be really enjoyable... there maybe someone whom you could not recognize anymore so you will be asking "Sorry I forgot who you are... may I know your name?" And when you will hear his/her name you might hug your long time classmate...

I don't understand why you don't want to enjoy the occasion.What you have written sounds as if you are confused.You are unable to think whether you should go there.I would like to suggest you not to be driven by your whims.Don't go there if you have some solid reasons.Otherwise go and enjoy the occasion.Such things often happen with all of us.So don't get upset.