DREAM to DANCE MY FATHER AGAIN

Your discussion caught my attention becuase of what I am going through with my dad. Around two years ago he decided to stop seeing me or my kids because my mom told him to. I can't go see him or him talk to me in any way. I have tried to call but my mom monitors his conversations. I was told to stay away. My mom is developinig Alzheimer's but everything in her mind is so real, my dad believes all she says. I was sad for my dad, tried to be understanding, and then it turned to anger. How could he just give me up like that? I ran into my sister around a week ago. She told me he was trying to come to see me but had to lie to my mom to sneak up here. He was mainly coming to help my sister move but since he was in the area he wanted to see the kids. I told her no, he didn't have to come, in fact I didn't want him to. My kids have been hurt by not being allowed to see their grandpa. Every week we practically would spend time with my parents, then they cut them off too. I didn't want them to go through the pain of having to wonder again why they weren't allowed to be near them. There are times that I miss my dad so much it hurts yet there is so much anger in him always choosing what my mom wants, even when it's wrong. Yes, I'd love to hold my dad, talk to him, help him go through these last years peacefully but how do you just turn your back on your daughter? Why does it take the loneliness of now realizing that he misses us to take the chance to see us? I feel like an orphan at times but my whole life has been like that to make my mom happy first then I would be loved.

I can see that you're missing him very much. So,you wish you can do what done with him in past. But this is not good. You should try to escape this status, my friend.