Unanswered questions....

@PDBME2 (1014)
United States
May 26, 2012 8:14am CST
Around a three years ago I ran into my ex husband. There were always questions I had about why we got divorced, wondered about how his life had gone after we got divorced etc... Well the funny thing is that I think we turned out better friends being apart than together. I wouldn't want to go back to being his wife becuase I think his relationship with his wife is better than what we could ever have had. He has two daughters that mean the world to him and I have five kids that I love just as much. It seems we could talk about our new marriages and even encourage each other to continue being the best parent's to our kids. I see him work so hard to make his family happy, not the man I used to know but it's good. I am the mom and wife I am sure he'd never thought I'd be. I am glad that there are no more unanswered questions to how or why we fell apart. Sometimes things are better for us in a differnt situation. One time he told me that he would have never let me go through what I go through now and I think I believe him but yet I am glad he is in his world and me in mine. I would have never made him the man he is today and me the mother I am for my kids. So for women out there do you have unanswered questions?
3 responses
sharone74
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
27 May 12
Sometimes things just don't work out and you find out that yo ere btter friends than lovers all along. Sometimes you have to get som distance from the situation before you can really see it for what it was. Whatever the reasons were theyboiled down to not the right, place, not the right time, or not the right person. You are both much better off to hae found your person(s) right?
palonghorn
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
27 May 12
I've been through 3 marriages and 3 divorces, and for me, I know why each one ended the way it did. The first, I was too young, right out of high school, thought it was the thing to do. Second one, was still young, and he had money! lol Money doesn't buy everything....took 5 yrs to figure that out. As for the 3rd, it lasted 16 years, but we came to have different goals and the arguing was too much. Even though we stayed in touch, we have a daughter, it took about a year before we could really talk as friends, now he is remarried and I'm still single, but we get along great. He sends me text messages, and jokes, etc. Not all the time but about once a week. I'm happy for him, and he knows that I am happy with my life too.
rewardsinlife
@rewardsinlife (1132)
• United States
26 May 12
I think everyone has unanswered questions about things that happen in our life. One hot topic especially of course is relationships and how they went bad or how they turned out in the end.