sometimes i just want to hide from some people

@hotsummer (13837)
Philippines
May 26, 2012 6:42pm CST
if i am only a rich person i would definitely go out to some place i won't be seen and just live my own life. it is not necessarily a far off place, just anywhere i can have my own life. and no one dictating what i should do. i just hate when people think they have the right to dictate what you should in each moment of your life. regardless if you are successful or not, no one should or have the right to tell us what we should do moment by moment.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
27 May 12
Yeah it can be frustrating when other people have a huge affect on our life and what happens in it. At times we really do need to get away from them and strive to make our own decisions. We are the ones that have to live our life and so we have to make decisions.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 May 12
I have the same thinking like yours too...
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• United States
28 May 12
I'm sure that we all have at one time or another have felt this way. I hope that things will improve for you like you would like them to. Just keep doing what you are doing and striving to make your own decisions. Don't let it get under your skin.
• Philippines
27 May 12
somehow you have a point, but sometimes what it seems to us a dictation is a friendly suggestion or our loved ones. But still, it is you who must decide on what to do with your own life. I sometimes feel the same way, like to hide from everything to have a "me time, self time". I suggest you have to go on a vacation for refreshment.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
27 May 12
I support your saying too, I hate my boss dictate my life perception, and lifestyle, he is very investigative, I don't like.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
27 May 12
I am with you on that. I have the same feeling at times I want to escape from it all. I just wish I have lots of money to start my own life. Sometimes we feel like suffocated and want to breathe for a while and for us to see what is left for us and who we truly are. But as they say, you have to face them all. those fears, those people who annoyed you, the sufferings, before the happy moments in life and success.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 May 12
Umh...if i am the rich, i may buy an island and go to spend my weekend in there where there is only me.....However, i don't like to be alone for long time... For sure, no one of us like someone just dictate what should we do. We have our own right to decide what we should do in our life. However, in working place, we may have to follow the team leader, but we can speak out our opinion for discussions.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
27 May 12
i certainly agree with u. That is why i live and rent just by myself, no complication. I only worry who to ask help when in need mostly financially since i am on my own. It is not easy, but I have my freedom. I am not rich as much as I would buy an island for get away when needed but I move house like every year when i feel that people are starting to gossip about my life or investigating my status, whether relative or neighbors. you just need a stable good paying job then to hell with everybody else, live ur life away from people who think they are better creatures than u.
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 12
I have to agree with you. I think that the only person who can dictate your life is yourself. I don't like it, when other people feel that they have a right to dictate who I am, the way I life my life, and such.
• United States
27 May 12
I feel the same way sometimes!! What if I just upped and left? I did that when I was younger just left and didn't call anyone for days, months but after a while it not only got scary but lonely! I am olde r now ans learned that is not the answer but believe me I feel like so many times just to go away from every one and everything here! But I stop myself so many times from waling out the door thinking back to what I did and is the reason where I am now! So we need to face our problems no matter how extreme or hurtful life can be we can not just run away but believe me I have wanted to several tomes and think about it every day! But I have to stop myself and who knows maybe one day I will walk out the door again but it will take a lot for me to do so again because of what I faced doing that when I was younger and believe me Life is not that bad compared to what is out there to what I have seen and experienced! So try just to deal with things that come your way here you go mayve this will cheer you up http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Teaft0Kg-Ok
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
27 May 12
I agree with you! I just don't like people to dictate anything about my life.
@swapmind (355)
• Australia
27 May 12
Even though no one has the write to dictate us but the only permitted authority are your parent.Well they never dictate you but guide you instead in order to make you more aware,further it is the matter of your choice what to opt for.Sometimes we learn from others experiences to avoid committing mistakes in our life.so don't allow anybody to dictate your life but be open to learn.
• United States
27 May 12
I Agree ! Nobody Should Tell you What to do n a day to day basis or ever , I Couldn't explain what my life would be like . i would have major depression