thought he'd protect u but he harm u.
By luisaR
@luisaR (452)
Philippines
May 26, 2012 10:56pm CST
have u been in a situation wherein for the longest time you never think that the person u love and cares about is the person who will harm u in the long run? have read news here that a woman was stabbed by his son, or a father just killed his wife and kids among others. It's painful to think that people we gave our life and unconditional love will do something horrible on us. Looking back, I was a battered woman. I learned to love this person and gave what i can to make thing work out but for simple misunderstanding, I get beaten up, as many type of painful hit aside from punches. whenever he do it, I got numb of the pain physically and every time he does, it hit my mind why this person that I love is hitting me and slapping and punching me this way? It was a very very sad thought. thought he should be my protector but...it was very painful and even had the suicidal tendency. how about u?
4 responses
@cindytandry (69)
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27 May 12
i used to be in this kind of situation too, i loved a man who i thought love me too, so i'm giving the best i can for him and doing the best too.. but he kept makes me sad, makes me cry and doing the things that i don't like, he keep doing the way he like without thinking about my feeling, i was in that kind of situation for almost a year! and then again i think back, i look back to the memories that we've been through and all the things that i did for him and the ay he returned it to me, then suddenly i realised that he don't really love me at all. i think he just need a status, relationship status. so yeah, i leave him then, because i truly believe that if someone really love us then he / she would do the best to make us happy and not the opposite, now i'm smart enough to see which one is love and which one is stupidity :D
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
27 May 12
wow luisa, what a sad post..Its sad you had such a terrible
relationship hopefull it is in your past..I personally could not
really understand how a person would let that type of abuse
continue to go on...
So fortunately I have never ever been in that situtation..so
thats probably the reason i can't understand it..
But I do there are a lot of unstable people in this world that
seem hopeless the way they disrespect others...its like they
are not human.... like bodies without feelings.....
@musicloverfriend (1465)
• India
28 May 12
Its a very sad post. My friend told me, someone who slaps,punches,hits, etc. a woman is not a man. Isn't that true? Why would a man do that on woman. It's sad, 
and shame on him.
And I have heard a lot of cases, where people are harmed by trusted ones. It's their, money mindedness or whatever, I can't understand why,people can sacrifice, or that is not an apt word, people forget their loved ones for something mortal, in life.
and shame on him.
And I have heard a lot of cases, where people are harmed by trusted ones. It's their, money mindedness or whatever, I can't understand why,people can sacrifice, or that is not an apt word, people forget their loved ones for something mortal, in life.
@factorial (977)
• Philippines
27 May 12
oh! I don't want to go into your private life luiaR, but if I were you I have left him long time ago... just bring with you your son...
