trouble with ex

Philippines
May 27, 2012 3:25am CST
have you cried over someone, really really cried and got your heart broken? and then you tried to build your life all over again and after a few years, this someone who broke your heart comes back and persistently tries to win you back? and when you tell him that there's no hope for a new romance, this someones seems more challenged and pursues you even harder? isn't that annoying?
11 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
27 May 12
very annoying indeed, thankfully my ex didn't do that. my advice: ignore him if you really don't want anything to do with him anymore. If you have feelings for him still then you are in trouble. Do what you think is right.
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
27 May 12
i would like to give him a chance dear.. may b he realized his mistakes & he is trying to fix it again to have a promising relationship again...
• Philippines
27 May 12
i have nothing to offer to my ex anymore, not even a single drop of emotion.. i'm totally ignoring him, i hope he stops coz he's freaking me out.. :D
• Philippines
27 May 12
by the way, thank you for your response.. :)
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 May 12
I understand your feeling now when your ex- did like that. My opinion is you should not go back to your ex- more. He did hurt you and that love is broken already...we can't get back as if nothing happened. With me, when i decided to do break up...it means i and the ex- are not longer any more. All is end and nothing related more. I also never keep contact with the ex- also. Better you change your phone call or prevent his phone call, don't keep contact with him more. I hope you can get out of this trouble soon. Good luck!
• Philippines
27 May 12
i did change my num but i can't change were i live.. haha.. you're right, i won't ever go back to him.
• Philippines
27 May 12
by the way, thank you for your response.. :)
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 May 12
ya, We are always beside you...share with us whenever you get problems...
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 May 12
yes..of course.. it gives the bad memmories for me and gives me hard time for forgetting what happen with my heart..
• Philippines
28 May 12
you're right..so the best is just to move on and forget..anyway, life has so much to offer..:) thank you for your reply..:)
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
27 May 12
Past is past and if you have no feelings for him anymore, why let him in again in your life? Once is enough to make you realize things. But if you still love him, you would still let him in. Except that, don't take it too easy for him. Try some things to prove if he still deserves your love. But if you don't have feelings for him anymore, don't waste both of your time and tell him leave and never come back, right?
• Philippines
28 May 12
if there's love then there's definitely a chance but for me..well, not in this life and maybe the next..:) i don't hate him..i just don't want him back coz there's nothing for him that i have..indeed, past is past..:) thanks for the response..:)
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
27 May 12
i just experienced that, my heart was really broken just a few months ago. i met someone new but i can't forget my boyfriend. now he is back and wants to start all over again. in just a snap, i said okay right away. i know it is annoying but when you love a person it changes everything no matter how much you look and act stupid i think our relationship deserves another chance. i hope everything works out great and we can move on. just hoping for the best...
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
28 May 12
thank you. i hope so too. something as long as 8 years i think it deserves another chance.
• Philippines
28 May 12
if there's love then it definitely deserves a second chance.:) i do hope things will work out between the both of you..:D
@swapmind (355)
• Australia
27 May 12
Its really irritating when some people start taking you for granted,they impose their choice and try conquering your life.We should always learn lesson from such people and tell them you are your own boss.Emotions if respected are a heaven and if ignored are a hell.Don't allow anyone to invade to life and breach all terms and conditions.Every relationship flourish on commitment and trust.People who walk out of your life by their choice should be thrown out for ever and should learn a lesson that their is no scope of taking them back.You the master of your destiny,don't let others dictate your lifetime.
• Philippines
28 May 12
indeed..:D thanks much for this..:)
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
27 May 12
If you mean that you have already recovered from your passed feeling towards this guy,then ignore his presence and you will know that he would never bother you again. Instead give him more pain so that he would realized how painful what he have done to you before.Bring your other friends and enjoy your new happiness just discovered.
• Philippines
27 May 12
thank you for your response.. :)
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
27 May 12
ya o' course. its annoying if you have relationship now wid any other guy or if you hate your ex. i dont think if something happens with your ex will be your fault. if he wants to win back u, you can judge his emotions how depth it is. if its okay, then u can rebuild ur lyf once again dear! i would like to suggest you not to rebuild ur relationship if you find him not respectful to you and if he is trying to hae you only for some objects that you do not support. think with your all emo. discover if any hope is for him or not.. & surely, let me know wat you r deciding.. thanks.
• Philippines
27 May 12
hi.. thank you for your response. he's annoying because he's invading my privacy. i have nothing left for him and i already told him that. well, men sometimes are stubborn. :) i just hope that the things i told him will penetrate his thick skull.. :)
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
16 Aug 12
I experienced that kind of feelings before.. I feel happy when he tried to win me back but i am also afraid that he will hurt me again that is why i did not go back to him and the worst is, when the time that i am ready to face the reality that he is not with me anymore, he will try to go back into my life again. Its really hard to move on so i say no no to him.
• United States
28 May 12
i can understand that..i cant say that the person actually tried to come back..but i just hated to see them..i didnt have anything against them but just didnt want to be in their presence. and then they feel like its ok to just talk to you. i try to avoid them..but when i see them..i just say hello and keep pushin..your an ex for a reason.
@tweetyfe (191)
• Philippines
28 May 12
i experienced this case 5yrs ago, I'll commit another guy without any seperation to my boyfriend, because my boyfriend commit another girl without any permission, so i decided to quite my relationship to my boyfriend, ofcourse i feel sad but i tried to build myself to stand again after i broke my heart. This is a part of my life sometimes you loss but after you overcome this chalenge you build another confidence to yourself