Is it okay with an idea of seeking financial help from your ex relatives?

I guess you have to do what you have to do. Just make sure you pay them back so there is no hard feelings. It must be hard to be friends with your exes parents/family. But just because you're broken up with the girl doesn't mean you and her family cant' still be friends - can it? Best advice, on your question, is to be quite wary of who you borrow money from. I try to avoid it at ALL costs - I'd rather go completely broke than be in debt to someone - you never know what that person will be like once you borrow money from them. And you don't want to spoil your friendship over it, that's for sure.

Hi.. even if you used to be so close with your ex-gf, i strongly advise "no." Dont borrow from people, borrow from banks instead.

If I was desperate like that I would ask anyone

Hello Mobhomeir, That is really sad, Can they just give you like two weeks or something just to move out? because this is horrible to boot. personally i don't know what to think because this is about getting help from different people. besides, i don't know if your close to them or not, getting financial help isn't easy now a days

I guess it is ok , since they are close to your and as friends, it is time to check their friendship whether it is genuine or not by asking the loan , even if they can loan a small amount , according their ability this show their friendship level alraedy. Hopely your will not betray that trust and return the loan in due time. Personally i don like relatives, however for your case , your can consider them as friends.

I can't say no since my ex helped me out lately and I won't pay him back since he owns me a lot. We have no further contact, we are not good friends, plus I don't talk to him personally or call him, I only use his email in emergency. He will never pay me a visit or I will pay him a visit. I don't know why you need that money but if you do believe there is someone who wants to give it to you, or borrow it to you you only should ask yourself this: do I really need that money now, am I able to pay it back, what are the concequences if I am NOT able to pay it back or if I do ask for this money. Is there a price you have to pay for it (we mostly have) and am I willing to pay that price?

I don't know. It depends on the relationship you have with those relatives. I don't know your situation, as every one is different. How did the relationship end? If it's something the ex did, and their relatives know it's the ex's fault, then they may still be friends with the other partner. However, if it was not the ex's fault, then the relatives may hold a grudge. Or I may be wrong about the whole thing, because once again, I don't know the whole story.

The only goal to be gained by asking for financial help from an ex relative is thaat you may get the help. The only fall back would be that ex relatives are more likely to talk about you and the help they gave you to everyone they know. It can lead to embarrass for you just for a little bit of finacial relief. I would fond it best to consider another source before going to ex relatives. If it is all that you havem please take care.

hi, it will depend on the relative you have,because in my experienced i have an auntie who really have many money but she is very frugal in her relative but if her friends or co-church will lend some money she will,i dont know why she dont like to lend money on us though we can pay her.