Now I must be dreaming... I'm already rejected.

hai Don't be sad,life is just like that,if it's not meant to you it will not be yours, Time will tell and come, right guy will come unto you just look like a thief , i mean to say it will come unexpectedly.. Move on my dear,cheer up be your self .

Take it slow don't rush things. Me, I had also a crush on a girl and like her very much. I realize that taking things too fast might scare her away. Or she might be overwhelmed of what's happening. In my past relationships, I have rushed things quite a bit and have confessed to girls when I liked them. This time I thought to myself, I'll just develop my friendship with her and see what happens. Maybe you should do that too. Friendship can also grow into romance.

Good for you, making the huge confession! I'm sorry you got rejected, but at least it didn't ruin your friendship. I notice that what he said didn't close the door completely on the chance of a relationship. That's a good thing. The best you can do is to try to put the whole crush out of your mind and concentrate on being a good friend. Maybe he'll open up and you'll get together. Maybe somebody else will come along. It's okay to have optimism, but do think realistically. He said no for the time being. Maybe you feel a little crushed and confused, but doors are still open for you.

Wake up and don't dream more about that guy. He told clearly that you guys are friends only and you should face it my friend. I think better you should go out, meet another man ..with the time, i think you can find your right man...don't worry about it, there are many nice men out there, don't dream of that guy anymore...

From the sounds of it this guy isn't as emotionally mature and ready for a relationship as you are. Personally this would put me off him a little as the last thing you want in a man is immaturity. Having said that you have two real options. You can either put your faith in the fact he will eventually change his mind and come around to the idea of a relationship with you and therefore make the most of your friendship now and bide your time. Or you can cut your losses and spend a little less time with him and realise that whilst he seems like the most amazing person at the moment there are plenty of other guys out there who will want to be with you, with no excuses.

continue to be friends with him if you really like him that much, keep up your relationship and maybe try again later in the future, maybe he'll have a change of heart!

HI resy21curapika! :) Firstly, you did a very good thing confessing about your love towards him! It would have been silly if you wouldn't have done that because you had a crush on him since your high school! Umm... certainly you shouldn't be losing hope. Right now, that guy rejected you but you still are friends and you should be happy about it. Because there are some guys who don't accept to be in a relationship and later on don't even like to remain friends. As for now, you should remain calm and try to understand him. Might be as he said, he may not be ready to be in a relationship. And as I said, you shouldn't lose hope. If you truly love him, you should try waiting for him, who knows he might realize your love for him and becomes ready to start up a relationship with you. Or you can even try moving on and try to find another love. :)

good day resy21curapika, with reference to your post, i do admire you for the acceptance that you have showed. it seems that you just take the situation as light as possible. well, maybe it is better to have the friendship rather than having nothing at all. at least you can have a simple relationship to start on.