What would you do in this situation?
@lafredricktaylor (256)
United States
May 27, 2012 5:27pm CST
Say you are tired of the bachelor life and you are ready to settle down. You've met several people during your time that you can actually see your self with. You have narrowed your choices down to three..but out of that three..there are two that will do any and everything a man would want them to do, they are both beautiful and have careers..but..the one i really am attracted to, is not that submissive. but this third one is the mother of my child, but i think thats why my attraction to her is so strong. but i am really ready to settle down..i jus dont know with whom!
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@AmbiePam (92787)
• United States
28 May 12
Oh honey. From what you said earlier she sounds way too unstable to be settling down with for life. I know you want to make it work with her, and who can blame you since she is your child's mother. But I worry about your emotional state. She seems like she could yo yo your emotions around.
@lafredricktaylor (256)
• United States
28 May 12
you know i was really looking to hear someone else say what you said..thanks AmbiePam!
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@judelen (428)
• Philippines
28 May 12
Hello! It's that you are already tired of being single in life. For not the physical appearance that will matter most but your feelings. To whom do you love most! That a big question you should answer that comes from your heart. Ask this to yourself... without not holding at all. Remember that getting marriage is not an easy responsibility in life that you can count on. use your head as they say not your heart. I mean think, think and think. compare everything and get some avice also from your friends.
@lafredricktaylor (256)
• United States
28 May 12
well my heart is with the one that my mind tells me is not the right one..honestly if i had the answers or could actually walk away and just say kcuf it, i would. this move is about more than just me...because if it was just still me, i would keep them all..
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
Why not choose the mother of your child? It is not just going to give you a very happy life, it would also make your child feel complete by giving him a family because you chose her mother over other women.
