What did you do when you were betrayed by your partner?

To me, this question is about "fight or flight". I have been in that position before. I stayed cool while my husband carried on his nonsense for one whole year. I had a two-year old to take care of and I wasn't doing any justice to her by being depressed. At that time, I chose to fight. I fought for my girl, not for myself. I outplay their game. I began to assert myself and at one point, I even asked him to leave if he wanted. He chose to stay. I stayed because I could see that they were not seeing each other anymore. But if it happens again, I would take flight, no doubt about that.

During that time, I have the feeling that he was hiding something from me. He started to be cold and always try to avoid my questions. It was very difficult so I really make a way for us to have a serious conversation on the topic that he keeps on avoiding. When he finally told the truth, I don't know what to do at first. I never wanted to give him up because I Love him. I was hurt, very much hurt. No matter how painful it was, I decided to let him go and be with the woman whom I think, he loves more than I.

I was once with somebody who treated me very badly, and to be honest with you it just made me feel as though nobody would ever love me again. It took me a long time to get over that person, and I found that I struggled to trust my new partner because of the way that I was treated by the old one. However, you have to remember that not everybody is going to treat you badly, and you just have to keep in mind that there are some really nice people out there who are going to treat you the way that you deserve to be treated, so you just have to try and make sure that you find those people.

Well, she kidn of betrayed me one time but we weren't officially together yet.. so i think that doesn't count as a betrayal... I think? So she confessed she did something one time.. She said that while we were in class. I got really pissed at her for what she did and I just stormed out of the classroom. She quickly followed me and grabbed my hand and I violently shook it off. (I know women here in my lot are going to bash me for that) Then she just stood there and stopped... and shouted "When a girl holds your hand you don't just shake it off like that" - tears quickly bursted from her eyes... And I just looked at her and said - what i just did to you isn't even the same caliber of what you did to me... I just walked out of our school building that time and I went back when there was only 15 mins left in our class... When class ended I saw her crying hard to her friends... Then shortly after that I spoke to her gay bestrfriend to help me... The gay bestfriend made her go to the trainstation... When there was a train right infront of them, my girl suddenly said.."aren't we going to board the train?" - the gay bestfriend said no. When the train left, she saw my friends from across w holding a banner.. "Can you be my girlfriend?".. Then i quickly gave her a tap from the back.. placed earphones in her ear playing Snow patrol's "Just say yes" and i have a bunch of illustration boards... saying... how much i love her... it's really crazy how love makes us compeltely bold...

i had experience that twice..my ex betrayed me twice..on her first betrayal, i chose to stay..but when she did the same thing again, i chose to leave her because i realized that misery is a choice..

hai Betrayed;just like Judas did to our Jesus Christ.. If my partner did that, I will forgive her but I won't stay with her,because if she really love me she won't commit in that kind of sin,,hurt much if someone will betrayed you specially when the person you love most did it. Better not to stay with her than having argue each other everyday. have a nice day

I don't think I can live about the fact that my partner has betrayed me. Things would never be the same so I think it would be best for the relationship to just part ways. The betrayal wouldn't have happened if there are no underlying issues on the relationship anyways. Its an inevitable fact if that's the case.

I have never had a partner betray me, but if I did, I would stay unless it was a physicall harming relationship that could end up being annulled. Just what I personally believe in.