For better or for worse?

Well worse times are unavoidable in this life. This is the reason why couples should be ready to tackle worse times together. Marriage isn't all bed of roses and this is the reason why they are being reminded in the marriage vow that they should keep loving no matter what. Sadly, many couples failed to keep togetherness when problems beset them. Many are now separated because worse days become too hard for them to push through. As for me, I've been married for almost 27 years and indeed there have been really difficult times. But by God's grace we both are and will continue following our vow till God calls us home.

Intersting thing , well to cut to the chase best way to find out is to have these situations before wedding , you can have this challanges by living togheter a period of time , to look and study the personality and character of your patner from time to time but to study this things from "outside the box" not thinking with your heart , thinking with your mind , but as i said best way is to have this situations before wedding , for example if you have a 2 year relationship before wedding , you can`t say that you don`t know your partner , not 100% because no one knows his partner 100% , that`s the mistery of us , humans :)) , mistery that can be beautiful or not that beautiful , but you as the weather is 80% guessed , you can guess a high percentage if the person near you , worth it. But if you plan to marry him/her i think it`s worth it :) hope this helps

Actually the "worse" part is the hardest to handle. Between me and hubby most of the time we try our best to be calm and be rational because if we let it gets in our mind we really end up fighting against each other rather than working it out together.

I think we don't have a choice once we are married, because allowing ourselves to be married to our husband in a ceremony means agreeing with all the provisions included in the wedding vow. So couples or partners as the word implies should discuss their problem, whatever it is so that they could arrive at a decision on how to solve their problem. Both should help each other and work for a solution, not only one but both of them since they are partners.

I've been married for 10 years and yes i agree that at some point, especially during the adjustment years of my relationship, we had encountered a lot of difficulties which almost had our marriage end, but since me and my husband value the relationship we started, we always talked about the things that is causing the problem. Together we adjust to each difference we had and look for better ways to deal on things that bothers us, most of all we always see to it that we make living together as adventure of discovering thing together, we eliminate the word BORING. Now we just laugh at every problem we encounter, we may not be able to prevent it but we had found the ways to control it. Have a nice day.

good day betterdays4me, i guess you are a peson that fill with a sense of responsibility,no matter what the problems and difficulties would arise,we should ready to stick together for better or for worse,because we are all get married,so we must follow that saying"for better or for worse".

I have been with someone for 3 years. There were a lot of difficult times but there were also lots of happy times. Although it was not a marriage, we did live together for more than two years. I think it is delusional for people to think that a relationship will always be happy and great.