Should i give him a chance????

O.k. I read the other thread. No I think you should delete him. I had a similar situation with countless people on yahoo messenger and answers. Especially on Literati which is like Scrabble on yahoo. There were many on there who would instant message you and say they just wanted to chat about the game and things. Two that were especially annoying were foreign. It wasn't long before the conversation would turn to personal questions. One was a woman and she could not get it through her head that I was not into her that way. And another guy with a wife wanted to know about my first personal experiences, I humored him with not many details and tried to drop it but he persisted each time asking again and again. Finally I had to block them both. From what you said, he is probably after more than friendship.

Since your friend is a foreigners ask yourself this: are you overreacting? Is it possible the difference in language does cause problems you would not have with someone who does speak the same language? English is not the language you grown up with so you will have different feelings for certain words as your friend has. But even if you both would speak the same language it's not always easy to understand what the other person really means. Also ask yourself why you only want to be friends with someone if everything goes easy. Don't you think a friendship can only be stronger if you have bad times as well? Aren't these times the way(s) to get someone known better, to find solutions to problems, to build trust and loyalty? It's up to you what you do, how much you want to invest in a relationship (which a friendship is as well). BTW your friend will keep mailing you till you put it to a halt. Which you are not doing since you keep answering each time again. So somehow I do believe you like this kind of attention also.

after reading in your previously discussion, i think it depends on you.. maybe you can give him some certain requirement for accepting him as your friend again... give him several requirement maybe 1. don`t ask about the sensitive question to you 2. don`t ask about your family information or about your personall information.. or another question that you don`t like him.. if he do it again, you make sure that you will delete him again in ym list..

After reading the other link (other topic) It's up to you to decide. Whether everyone will tell you to delete him/ignore him/blocked him- if you won't- there is nothing anyone can do. This is like the others who ask advice and seek others opinions, but at the end of the day- it yours final decision that counts. So,it's up to you. If I am in your position- I should have blocked him and not just delete.

Obviously, this guy is consistently annoying like me online, lol! Anyways, there should be caution on meeting up with someone you met online especially him insisting on talking about delicate issues such as the ones you described. If you want to give him a chance, then go meet him, but you need someone to come with you like a friend or a relative.

Bad Side: If you feel that it is awkward or you're pretty annoyed to his antics. Probably you can consider deleting him as a friend. Good Side: Well better talk to him at some time, not always of course. Probably he's totally bored and lonely at his place. But if he asks naughty questions, better not entertain him nor his questions. Have a good day.

I will suggest you to delete this friend, ryanong! He is probably thinking to get you on the bed, believe me I have encounter this type of person before and he is a foreign in my country.

Sounds like this guy is a stalker. I recommand going to the police if he continues to bother you. Don't give him a chance! He sounds like he is only trouble! Put him on you ignore list on Yahoo messenger! I would not trust him at all!

Please stay away from this person. I read the other discussion about you describing him asking you about personal questions. This person might think that you are just playing hard to get and might take advantage of you in the future when he thinks that you're already close to each other. Don't waste your time and effort with this person.

I don't think you should be his friend, a stranger, really. The other post you gave link, mm, you should never go meet him. You know he asked you really stupid questions and asked again on warning too. You should have never gave him chance, so don't give him chance. He can act any way while chatting. You know that, don't you?

Well, I think if he really annoys you or you're not comfortable with him, it is better for you to just put him in your ignore list.