Anniverserys
By dansazz
@dansazz (1058)
United States
May 29, 2012 11:46am CST
It is my wife and I's 2 year anniversary today. We are not legally married, we just call each other husband and wife and have the rings and everything. We plan on getting married one day, but we aren't yet. We met two years ago today. There have been ups and downs like any relationship. I am proud that we have fought through it all and have made it this far. I feel like we are really starting to move forward, more towards our dreams. I don't really have any money so we aren't going to do anything special, but I gave her a gift already, and we are going to hang out together and enjoy ourselves. And spend time with our beautiful baby girl. It's a good day today.
7 responses
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
30 May 12
happy anniversary to both of you. enjoy the day even thru simple way.
You mentioned that you are not yet married but have already daughter. I think you can have your relationship as husband and wife legally. You can have it thru court or anyone that has the right to conduct marriage. Eventually when you have the budget to make a church wedding, then do it.
enjoy the day!
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
31 May 12
Would yoou mind if I ask you, why are you saying that you are not yet ready to get married. You have already a daugther.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
1 Jun 12
Hello dansazz. SO, you live together? Congratulations you surpass the trials. It would not be the end but through experience your relationship with your wife will become stronger. My partner and i use the status married though we're not. We just treat our self as family and enjoy the company. If we meet and on a date, people will see as married, that's what we project, and we are happy about that.
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
30 May 12
Like others, i also would like to request you to be married formally though you don't like having it in hurry. After being married society n religion will allow you claiming that you are her legal father... now its your choice which you want to be!
Congratz... hope you will be safe n sound there..
:-)
@watergirl (567)
• Philippines
30 May 12
Congratulations on your second anniversary!
I can see there are quite conflicting responses to your discussion. It's normal, I guess, for people to react differently to situations and ideas. I have friends who decided to live as married and have children. Some of them eventually got married when they thought it was the right time. I agree that marriage should not be hastened for the wrong reasons. It doesn't matter if you're married, living as married, divorced, or separated. The important thing is that you're committed and united in prioritizing your child's welfare.
@rainbowink (296)
• Philippines
30 May 12
With all the negative news I have heard lately, it is so refreshing to read your story. Reading it makes me happy so I would like to thank you for sharing this.
Anyone having a hard time would feel a little bit lighter after reading this.
Good luck and may you spend more years together. Cheers.
@aquinoma05 (162)
• Philippines
30 May 12
Hi! Congratulations you made it that far! Having a life partner is always great and gives a happy feeling. to wish for you to have more years to come and a good health for your baby... Cheers!
