age?
By stacilyn8812
@stacilyn8812 (61)
United States
May 30, 2012 7:38pm CST
So I talk to a few men on the computer and I am planing on meeting one Saturday and I was wondering what do you think about age difference in people how many years is to many to you?
He is much much older then I am but I think I could really like this guy and he says he does not care about the age difference I don't know if he is gonna change his mind when he meets me but I guess I will just have to wait and see.
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5 responses
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
7 Jul 12
For me age really doesn't matter as long as you love each other and you understand each other. I am also married to a guy which is much older than me but even sometimes we have an argument but we still end up on forgiving each other. Actually even he is older than me he acts that we have the same age. Always think positive, if he really love you he will not change his mind if you see each other in personal.
@talithe (38)
• United States
12 Jun 12
If you have to ask about the age difference, I'd say it concerns you. You'll have to figure out why it concerns you and if you handle that. A few years back I dated a guy seven years older than myself. I was 22 at the time. I liked the idea of an older man because I associated age with maturity, responsibility, financial security, etc. Everyone I knew said it was a bad idea. Eventually I realized that the fantasy in my head was just that - a fantasy. Age didn't make him wiser, more responsible, etc. Right after him I thought I'd try again, another guy who was seven years older. I met the same wall with him. From what I realized with both though is that when there's an age gap there will be a different agenda. I wasn't ready to settle down right away, have kids, etc. Both guys were. If you and this guy are on the same page I'd say go for it. If nothing else you can learn from the experience.
@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
31 May 12
I think that some people are just older than their years and they get along with older people. I also think that it is something that is different for each person. I was married to a man ten years younger than me. Some men just like older women. They are more experienced and not just sexually. They aren't so high and mighty and silly as the younger ones. Depends on what each person wants and who the people are characteristically.
@GemmaR (8517)
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31 May 12
I don't think that age really matters unless one of you is a child and underage. If there is a difference of a lot of years, then one of the only problems that you're going to get is that you are at completely different stages of your life, and this could be a little bit of a problem to you if you're deciding which way you want to take your life or something like that. But it isn't about what everybody else thinks; you have to do what's right for you, and only you know whether you are going to be able to be happy with this person or not.