Who has 1 friend in Facebook who always put annoying and depressing statuses?
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
May 30, 2012 8:17pm CST
Someone shared this quotes in my Facebook wall and my mind goes
ding
ding
dong ???
hmnn...I have few friends who always update their statuses.
yes, some are annoying and depressing so I just ignore rather than commenting.
But, I don't have a friend who "always" puts a drama on his/her Facebook status as if he/she is the most unwanted person on earth
Do you prefer to comment to any annoying/depressing statuses of your friend, or just ignore.
Since there is no "dislike"button- you can't even click "like" for sure
Good morning everyone, enjoy mylotting and reach payout
jaiho®- reached payout already (yeheyyyy)
5-31-2012 9:17am Thursday PT
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24 responses
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
31 May 12
one day my friend when I was junior high school made a status that show that she's very angry to her mother and she ask if she's really daugther of her mother or not. really sounds stupid for me! does she have to ask it on facebook? does everyone have to know that she have problem with her mother? so far I recognize her as mature person, but what I saw in facebook show different character of her and for me it's really not important facebook status!!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello red,
That's really annoying huh.
Yah, who knows about it and why she has to post it all around.
For what reason aint?
That's what I am thinking too- why the need for things that should be private, or things that should be kept for privacy reasons.
thanks and have a good day
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
31 May 12
more annoying thing is that this is becomes new phenomenon now. everyone loves to complain on their facebook status than share it to their close friend. facebook status now seems like a trash basket for some people. I guess most of them enjoy it!! even one of my friend send me a short message ( SMS ) just to ask me to "like" her status update about her anger to her enemy. OMG!!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
Uh uh...really?
that is why people are now requesting for "dislike" button
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
7 Jun 12
I don't have facebook account, i hate this site, it has created problems in my family, you are aware of this, why you don't reply?
hugs again from maa
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
dear maa,
Sorry for my late response-
I just come online now
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
31 May 12
I still have my patient jai, as long as im not affected i will just ignore it. But i know like what happened on my last discussion about thumbsdown button someday if she annoyed me again directly i will just hit the like bottom so she may feel insulted.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
You can hide all her post on your wall Jai, I done this so many times specially those games who are appears on my wall.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
Yes lyn, there is nothing we can do but keep our patience.
But how can I ignore if my wall is flooded with such statuses.
It's fine with just one post- but it's a full page with depressing statuses (duh)
I don't think facebook will ever add such feature like youtube that has "dislike"
Disliking a friend status is too way outrageous to ridicule a friend.
Have a good day
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@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
31 May 12
I ont have just one but many that are like freaking depressing. I seriously dont know what is wrong with these people becasue it isnt just one status it is more than 20 a day.
And then there was one that shared thousands of depressing statuses and then shared on syaing that she isnt depressed because of her status.
Please these people are either fake or depressed.
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@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
1 Jun 12
I know. It is like those people that, for example, post a thousand depressing things, when they get a negative comment the post another status complaining that they can say anything because people will associate that there is something wrong but they dont care. This happened once and on her last comment the only thing i said was: If you don't care then don't complain.
Some people just cant halde other peoples point of view.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello absinto,
Well, you are right.
Maybe some are just faking their statuses to catch attention and attract comments.
The problem is- when someone commented negative and the poster do not like it- he or she starts a fight with the respondent.
I just can't understand why people always looks for attention and feel bad once they receive a negative comment. duh!
thanks and have a good day
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
31 May 12
Hi di
Dear, I dont use FB that regularly as many others. When I almost feel bored due to nothing new around, I log in there, do some likes and return back
After being there for long, I still dont find it interesting.
As for payouts... maybe sometime next month or might not be as I would be away for a while next month too...
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
sids,
I am not active there, but keep the account to share my articles.
But sometimes I feel too lazy to share my articles to my groups either.
I just check for updates there and also chat with few friends when they leave me offline messages.
So you are planning for a grand vacation?
That's really nice then- come back fresh and in best of health
@knowledgehub (202)
• India
8 Jun 12
right i have some of my facebook friend who always posting nonsense things,wow what a whether,uuff i am so tired...i am not understanding what we do with all this,,
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
hello knowledge,
I also do not understand why people keep posting such annoying statuses :p
have a good day
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
31 May 12
I have facebook friends like that. The good thing is that most of my friends are Filipino and I don't know tagalog that well, so when they post it covers up all the annoying posts in English. It will suck though when I learn tagalog and I realize that they've all been whining the whole time.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello redhotpogo,
Aha...I am a Filipino
So, maybe you can ask me about those whining statuses
thanks and have a good day
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
Hi Jaiho!^_^
Nope, I don't have one friend in Facebook who always put annoying statuses... I have lots of them!
They are those who puts in their status everything that they are doing, everyplace that they go and so on... and also those who I think thought of Facebook status update as text messages where they can put every quotes that they have and other non sense... I get tired of them all so I just simply hide any updates from them! and that solves my sentiments. lol!
So obviously, I don't comment on them and on my part, I also hide my updates from other people, I set my account into "only me" things...hehe I just don't ant to hassle other people. Except for some posts that i just need to post since I sometimes join some contests/promos in FB... I hope my friends ill forgive me on that...
Have a nice day Jaiho! And congrats for reaching the payout! burger...burger... hahaha
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
hello amiga
Oh well- that's the least you can do than stressing yourself with those nonsense and repeated depressing/annoying statuses.
I am not active with facebook- I just open the site to check for any important messages from loved ones and friends.
So- reading those status sometimes irritates me.
I am sure your friends understand why you set your account that way.
Anyway, that is why Facebook has features that we can choose to- so no should have the right to ask :p hehehe.
have a great weekend
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
shiby,
That's good to know, at least no one share a depressing status
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
1 Jun 12
Hi jaiho: My rule on Facebook is simple: I don't want negativity in my life so if there's a drama queen out there I won't pay attention to his/her posts because it will affect me and it's depressing to talk to a person like this.
ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
hello Alvaro,
Yes, reading depressing statuses do affect our mood sometimes.
No matter how e tried to ignore if it keeps flooding our wall- duh...
Yah, we can ignore but not commenting- but it's irritating to see those depressing statuses all the time.
have a great weekend dear
@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
I don't have a facebook account anymore but before I had a friend who keeps on posting everything that is happening with her life and some of them are of kind of depressing and annoying at the same time. Since its her facebook account I don't have any say about what she puts or post on it but its like every hour she's like mopping and as if the world is going to end either on her relationship with her special someone or her family. I don't comment on it I just ignore for the fact that I already know what she's going through since she's my friend. I just don't see the point of telling all the people in your network that you're sad because of little things every hour.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
hello freymind,
That's the least we can do- ignore.
We understand our friends who post some depressing status- those who seldom posts.
But for those who keeps broadcasting every hour- goodness, I think they only want attention and not really depress at all- but making people on their lists become depress (duh)
have a great weekend ahead
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
hi jai,
OUcccchhhhhhh.........are you hitting me here????
Well I just read some of my friends status but I don't pay much attention unless it caught my attention there are lot of dramas in facebook status now a days some are just trying to get some attention but somehow it helps in other way to release your feelings if you can't hit the person personally
miss yah
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
31 May 12
Not anymore, it was terrible though. Good thing you don't have my mom on your friend list. Now there's a complainer for ya. Everytime we go out in the car she always has at least 5 things to complain about, but if you dare to complain about one thing she always tries to defend whomever or whatever it is you're complaining about, and it's usually not as many things as her.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello NailTech,
Uh uh, well, if ever your mom is one of my friend- I can just ignore the post (hehehe)
I have few in my lists who are posting annoying statuses- good thing I am not active there.
That is what more annoying- when a poster receives a negative comment/s, he/she feel bad and starts to response back with much negative that even lead to misunderstanding :xx
Thanks and have a good day
@renzonation (254)
• Philippines
3 Jun 12
hahaha first i laugh when you right that word 'ding ding dong' .well it realy annoying and embarrasing that you have a friends who like to post a really 'annoying' status so instead of reading this trash status or messages , why dont you permanenly delete that person on your fb friend's list..?
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
hello renzo,
I don't have a friend who keeps posting annoying statuses.
I have few friends who sometimes post depressing statuses- but not so often.
how about you- do you have a friend who keeps posting annoying statuses?
have a good day
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
31 May 12
Indeed!
I have Facebook friends like that. It seems that they need all the attention they could get and seems like there's nothing good in their lives anymore.
I even have a Facebook friend who openly shows how desperate she is to find a guy in her life. There's another one who just can't get over her break-up and shows everyone how 'in pain' she is. All the drinking, partying and wearing dresses that are obviously there to show what she's got (after pregnancy).
Anyhow, I just ignore them and this is the main reason why I don't open my Facebook often.
I'd rather do MyLot!
Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
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@GemmaR (8517)
•
31 May 12
I have one friend who seems to spend her entire life on the internet, and just posts things all the time. She will say about how horrible her life is and things like that, and then when people ask her what the matter is, she doesn't say anything and will then remove the status in question. I don't know why she would do it, because she never actually tells anybody what they're about; she just seems to like the attention that she's getting from the people who ask her if she's alright on a constant basis. I think it's often a sign that people are immature, and they just need to make the effort to grow up.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello GemmaR,
Well, she knows how to catch attention indeed, and simply delete the post once someone ask what is wrong or what is going on (hehehe)
Attention seeker huh...
I know there are times that a friend really need supports and by posting it through her wall- and receiving advice is a way to relieve him/her.
But- doing it always is not funny anymore- as if all his/her life is full of bad events.
Yah, it sounds like immature as if they doesn't know how to handle things in this life- not to mention those posters are not teenagers anymore :p
thanks and have a good day
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
31 May 12
Yes, who doesn't have these annoying human beings as friends or just coleagues? I had one that was always threatening to kill her self, uh.
She stopped talking to me and I was sad, but now I'm glad. She's really sick in the head and it doesn't matter how much I tried to help, always turned against me, maybe she is crazy. And it's funny cause NO ONE wants to listen to that non stop compaining and I was always there to listen, guess now she won't have anyone, most of people can't take this. Indeed is very depressing.
I don't have any other like this anymore , I'm free ~!!!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello katie,
Aw, that's really depressing.
I can't imagine reading a friend posting that (good thing I haven't encountered that status to any of my friends)
That is kind of scary huh- but yes, annoying when she keeps doing that.
So,you deleted her in your lists? (gosh, I think I might do the same thing if ever this happens to any of my friends :xx)
have a good day
@akp100 (13640)
• India
31 May 12
Hi
Congrats for reaching payment... And you can say same to me too
FB ... I am not that much active but still I used to check updates two or three times in a week.. I am having my college group, school group and family group.. And the people who are active their are quite fun loving. I always notice some funny pics uploaded by some one. Sometimes some good info too. So mostly not getting much to ignore.. Only few times I get something and I do exatly like you .... Ignore.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello akp,
Congratulations
Well, I would rather check for funny photos, videos and quotes- it makes my day.
Actually- I like scanning funny photos from 9gag (hehehehe)- just awesomely funny :p
I do have groups in facebook where I share my articles sometimes when I have time.
Have a good day
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
31 May 12
I do have friends who are quite have drama in their status.It is quite annoying especially if they are wall flooding, I mean too may post regarding those drama.I know that it is their right and just wanted to express their feelings but I guess Facebook is not the right place for that,for me.
I just ignore them and just let them do what they wanted.I just not comment or participate on their post like other does.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello ardoy,
I agree, it is their right- but posting too much really is annoying.
A one post is enough to make their friends understand what they feel- but posting depressing status over and over again is absurd.
Yah, better ignore- that's the best thing to do anyway.
thanks and have a good day
@tatsumaki (189)
• Indonesia
31 May 12
I've a lot of friends like that...
Maybe they just want someone to care for them but if too much its really annoying...
It's flooding my wall hahaha....
If some friends too much like that I'll hide their post..
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hello tatsumaki,
That's it- it's flooding my wall- who can smile right?
That is too way annoying to read statuses that always negative.
I also just ignore the post and tried to look for something funny to change mood.
Thanks and enjoy mylotting