Live issues
By alberello
@alberello (4752)
Italy
May 31, 2012 4:48am CST
Dear friends Mylotterr, I am writing this letter just in the "life" section to make clear precisely a time in my life, where I unfortunately for me things are not going in the right direction. I can talk about many issues, but I simply just to explain, one of all. This, I think that you will be ridiculous, but I feel bad. I would to report to me that my fear I against my brother, he has an arrogant and overbearing character. I just say that the absurdity of all this, is that my brother is 11 years younger than me (I am 37, he 26)! Ok this is simply my mental fixation, but I'm suffering a lot, especially me this time. I just hope one thing. What it all go away!
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4 responses
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
1 Jun 12
My two brothers live together and they have completely opposite personalities. They do not get along at all most of the time and other times it is like they are best buds. I understand that you are going through a bad time but why do you fear your brother? Has he threatened you? Or do you just feel kind of intimidated by him?
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
1 Jun 12
Well to be honest to him, I was never threatened. My psychologist says that indeed can not be afraid to talk about a physical level, but my mind is just a phobia. I need to overcome!
@mswhona14 (49)
• Philippines
1 Jun 12
hi alberello, I guess regarding that issue it is good to have a family round table talk so that you can open up to each other. Maybe your brother is just acting like he's more superior in the family and if that so, other family members must extend and reach out to him and make him understand how his actuation hurts the other member of the family. I'll pray for you then.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
1 Jun 12
Thank you so much for your prayers and for your valuable advice.
Thank you!
@cloud31 (5809)
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31 May 12
Hello alberello,
That was quiet complicated issue between brothers.I have witnessed issue like that before that the younger seems acting like the eldest one. An arrogant and disrespect attitude to older than him. So most of his family members scared of him.
Maybe try to talk to him when hes in good mood and explain and let him know your right being elder than him.
I hope you will make the situation better with you and your brother.
Good luck friend..I understand how do you feel about you and your brother situation,..Take care!
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
1 Jun 12
Well, yes, in fact, he makes the big bully in the house as if he were the master! We will have always with good manners, make him understand that, so he need not lead because he has no right to be disrespectful to their families
@Mashnn (4501)
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31 May 12
Sometimes it happens that the person that we care for most is not doing what we would expect him/her to do. The best thing is to keep off from such person for sometimes, show him less interest on whatever he is doing and I believe he will soon get back to his senses and realize he is not behaving right.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
2 Jun 12
I understand perfectly the fact is that you're not talking about just anybody to case, but about my brother who lives in the house with me everyday
