Do you still love me?

I think it rather sad that someone has to ask this question. I always thought it nice to have the words returned when I spoke them. Infact I asked that of my last husband. My grandson comes up to my room to visit me on his rounds through out his day and he will tell me he loves me. I return it right back too!

I havent asked my girlfriend about that and she havent asked me that question neither. The last word she told me is that I am a jerk and I dont understand what she is going through, blah blah blah... I do love her but we are currently in a rollercoaster, arguments is becoming me and her hobby in the last few weeks. That question on this discussion's title reminds me of the song "hanggang"

Everyone wants to feel love and especially when you are married. Marriages are built around the deepest of love thats ment to last a life time. I will get sad and want to hear that my husband still loves me. I tell him a lot that I love him. I know that he loves me and he shows it all the time. He gets me the sweetest cards and just takes care good care of me. I know that he loves me as much as he knows how. And he has told me before that he has never loved anyone the way that he loves me. And I feel the same. Once he told me that I have all the qualities that he liked about his past girlfriends and then some. I am his perfect lady all in one. I feel his love, and when I ask him he tells me and I know he means it. I hope that you feel the same when you ask this question. ~C~

No, i will never ask this to my love ones.. It's a tricky question to begin with. haha If ever we have to ask, it means we dun feel their love anymore. And if they reply with a yes, the next question would be, "why are u doing this to me" or "why dun u trust me", " why dun u care about me anymore".. lol With that questions coming up, it will only lead to more complications and thus, it's best not to ask. Trust our feelings and trust our love ones ^^ Love is simple

It is important that you always keep a check on how you feel when you're in a long term relationship with somebody. Feelings can fade, and you should always be making sure that you're not just staying with them because you're not too sure what else you should be doing. There are many ways that you can get the love back, but you have to be willing to work on it, and you have to realise that there is a problem in the first place so that you are able to work on it. This is something that I have discovered with my partner, and now that we have been able to address the issues that we had in our relationship, we're happier than ever.

Yeah I think that the majority of us ask our partner this question. Especially us women. We want to know that they love us and care about us even though a lot of time may have went by that we have been together. It makes us feel secure.

I never ask that question. Actions speak a whole lot more than words, and some people really do love their victims whom they mistreat, so what is most important is how they treat you. But if you tell them all the time you love them and they never say it back there might be a problem ;-) A really good romance, like any really good friendship, gets better with age. I have been most fortunate in who I choose to love. But then I have been very very picky.

the latter is usually what my husband says, when i ask him this he would say, don't you feel it? or if i don't i would not be here at all... which is frustrating sometimes because i would rather hear the words sometimes..

I always remembered to ask my husband if he loved me still. Many times, I think he just answered because I asked. Still, it was a loving game and even if the actual words did not mean the same the do when you have a young love, there were stronger and more complex hidden meanings.

Oh dear, there is no chance with the past to ask this question. I would rather wait for the right one and I don't want to ask this question either, rather keep saying "i love you" every now and then

I guess that I never ask such question to my ex, and that is why our relationship never works out. I wish that I going back in time, and tell her that I really love her then. Now, since we broke up, I realize that probably, she will be better without me. I am not a jerk or anything, but she seems happier with another person really loves her. The answer is not me.

At the moment I ask this there are only two reasons why I do so: 1: I know he isn't and I want him to admit or 2: I don't love him anymore and I hope he feels the same so we can end the relationship.

I have never asked my husband if he still loves me because I don't have to. I always know that he loves me with out any question need. Although my husband ask me some times he is just joking and other times he really wants to know if I do love him. I always tell him of course I do because if I didn't I wouldn't have married you and I would still be with you and its not because we have kids that I stay it's clearly because I do love you. That might make me crazy but that is true.

I never ask my husband if he loves me. I don't have to ask because I know he does. Personally, I think it is a sign of insecurity if you have to ask that question of your loved one. I know without a doubt and I can also FEEL that my husband loves me. Also, he knows and feels that I love him. I express my love for him in many ways, including verbally telling him that I love him at least once a day, often more. When I leave for work, I tell him that I love him, when I'm saying good bye to him on the phone I end the conversation with I love you, when I kiss him goodnight the kiss is accompanied by an I love you. He does the same with me. I think it is important to tell your partner that you love them but to ask if they love you? Nope. I just don't do it. I don't need to.

I think communication is important but what you are talking about to me seems to be about insecurity and immaturity. There is no place for these things in a real, honest, working, adult relationship.

hi there lynboobsy11, well, there are times that i do always asked that particular question to my partner. and repeatedly saying to me, yes i do love you. and this is good enough for me.

My husband never forgets to say he loves me more than once a day and he would really wait for me to reply. But when it my turn, which happens once in a while, I really don't expect him to reply. I just say I love him because that is how I really feel and there's no need for him to reply. I just want him to know.

I would also sometimes blurt out this line to my husband when i feel that we are always so busy and tired to be bonding specially in the evening. My husband knows that when i ask him this, i am trying to ask for loving moments with him. And when i ask him that, he would snuggle close to me and embrace me and kiss me on the lips. No words can compare to that assurance.

I have asked my husband this. Mostly when i am feeling sad or if I am having a strange feeling somethings wrong. Plus I would never want to think were okay and everythings fine in our marriage if hes not feeling that way. My husband always replies with of course I still love you and I always will. =)

My wife is my girlfriend.I never had any girlfriend before my marriage.We love each other and we both know it,but we never say to each other,'I love you' or something like that.We just know it.I think,love does not have any language.If there is any language of love,it is wordless,mute,because there is no word in any language of the world that can show or describe your love for someone.Your eyes,your face and your activities reveal your heart.Eyes glistening with love,a sweet smile and a face shining at your arrival is what demonstrates someone's love for you.No word is needed.No language is required.