when others just get frustrated with their lives already

Well, im sorry to hear that your mother and your sister got into a fight. I dont suppose that mommy dearest actually expected your sister to go to the church that she chose, since a matter as delicate as religion should not be forced upon someone, and telling your children which church to attend is definitely a bad decision. Tell your mother that she should not control her daughter and tell them both to make up, in the meantime, lets discuss upon this question. Should people have others tell them what to do? Well, that depends upon your age and the right solution, doesn't it? In this scenario, the one between your mother and your sister, it obviously wasnt applicable. I'm trying to say that if you are a teenager or a child, then your parents are there for you to guide you and nurture you, and to teach you right from wrong. but if you are a twenty-two year old, then depending on what kind of personality you have ( a good-natured one or an evil-seeking one) you will need others to tell you what to do.

In the end, we do have to live the life that is comfortable and enjoyable enough for us. There are just going to be many times where life is just going to be hard enough as it is, without any external interference. We don't need other people meddling in our lives, telling us what we need to do, trying to solve the problems of life right for us. In the end, there are going to be issues and squabbles but it really just adds far more problems than it is worth in life. It is just one of those things where it is just rather hard to deal with more often than not. And even the closest people will fight and for some reason, that just adds to the mental stress even more. Life can just turn out like that.