having baby before marriage????

June 5, 2012 12:40am CST
Todays there are a lot of cases of pregnancy among teenagers. it is happened due to their life style, they have free life style. this phenomena really make us sad, because under aged girls are not ready yet to treat their baby well. so that there are a lot of abortion following these cases. So, now what do you think? do you agree with the free life style or having baby before marriage????
8 responses
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
5 Jun 12
I felt so sad about this topic because even how much discussion we could afford to reach,still there so many hard headed who still does it for the sake of their love, yet they do not have the effective ways to take good care of their baby or it may end up in the abortion.I agree with the free lifestyle because all of us are born out because of our freedom to be alive and become educated and also bear a family someday that no individual has the right take it away from us due to abortion.
5 Jun 12
having baby needs a good preparation, so if we are not ready yet, we better avoid it. ;)
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• Philippines
5 Jun 12
You must be a very conservative person because you are ready to face the consequence of becoming a father.Many are still doing whether bad or good against their will to have love to their lovers,yet the responsibilities of becoming a parent is not included in their lifestyle,so what is the outcome of their future family?A broken one that the child out of wedlock suffers most.
6 Jun 12
I'm not that conservative, I just want to deliver my opinion about having child or baby out of marriage and its consequence. becoming a father or mom should have a lot of preparation, otherwise the outcome of the family just like what you said..
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
7 Jun 12
I know that once pregnant the teenage girl must keep her baby, have her baby adopted which is emotionally hard to deal with or have an abortion which is murder. These days in my home country having a baby without being married is no longer frowned upon. I say well done to a teenager if she has her baby and becomes an excellent parent. These days a baby or young child could go to a childcare provider and the teenage girl could carry on with her education in my home country. I think that it is sensible to adopt the baby if the teenager isn't ready to become a mom so young. In the USA open adoption is available and then the teenager can see her child grow up but not have the responsibility of being a parent to the child. If a seventeen year old has a baby girl and keeps her then she might have a much better life for the child when she is twenty seven years old if she has had the opportunity to carry on with her studies at ages eighteen and nineteen. She might work as an accounts assistant. A baby does grow up and the lady will still be young when her child reaches age eighteen years old.
12 Jun 12
that's would be better for the too young mother....
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
For me, if one can prevent having a baby before marriage, then definitely do it. But I don't want to procrastinate and say that it's bad. For some people, having a baby forces them to grow up and become better persons. If the baby's already there, then you could really do nothing but become responsible, at least that's the ideal thing to do. But if you really can't avoid your hormones, it's still best to use protection especially if you know that you cannot raise a baby or if you're not sure that the person you're with is the one that you want to spend your lifetime with.
12 Jun 12
like ur opinion much;)
5 Jun 12
No, I don't agree with having baby before marriage. The impacts are very complicated, such as that you wrote.
5 Jun 12
yeah it is complicated when everything happens not in the right time...
5 Jun 12
Well superslix,i don't agree with having baby before marriage,on one hand it's in violation of national laws and regulations,on the other hand it will give the girl bad influence,if it is because of pregnancy do stream of people,will be bad for the girl's health,so i hope our teenagers doesn't having baby before marriage.
5 Jun 12
having baby out of marriage has a lot of consequences, so avoid it to be happened will be better.;)
@PoppaDave (438)
• United States
5 Jun 12
My daughter had a baby out of marriage. She is responsible though and takes care of her baby. she has support. I guess it is nothing different than 40 years ago, was the same thing then.
5 Jun 12
supporting family will be very important in this case, your daughter is really lucky to have family like yours...
@taura2p (349)
• Romania
22 Jun 12
I am not against people having kids before marriage. But I think that they should really wish the baby, and they should be ready for it. It takes a great responsibility to be a parent, and people should consider that carefully. I would not like to have a baby before I get married. I think I need the support of someone to raise a baby.
@chexzy09 (30)
• Philippines
14 Jun 12
This is going to sound so old fashioned but,. we got married because we wanted a baby