Tommorow
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
United States
June 5, 2012 9:11am CST
Yes it is here again Time flies so fast it seems like it was Christmas just a short while back but Tomorrow is my Birthday and all I want is my husband to be nice to me because he has been a real jerk the few days and I have no idea why? He is stressed over a lot of things and I am tired of him taking his frustrations out on me I do nothing but clean cook and be there for him everyday and he seems to be slamming doors and so many other things why? I can not stand it and don't know how much more I can take seriously! I have talked to him so many times and get no where with him!! I am sure on my Birthday he will be a jerk again! I just want to run away but I know that will not solve the problem! What would you do?
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@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Jun 12
It can be so hard to be close with someone because it is rather normal to do this. Being stressed is hardly reason to be mean to your mate. I would stay away from him for a while. When he asks you why I would tell him that I Don't know how much more I can take. Maybe you should make plans elsewhere on your birthday rather than be with him. I might leave him a note spelling it all out for him.
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@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
5 Jun 12
Yes I would love to go away somewhere it would be so nice to be away from him for awhile Thanks and have a great day.
@Ollanna11 (371)
• United States
6 Jun 12
I agree with celticeagle. Since you husband has one big chip on his shoulder get away. If your not around you wont be affected so much by his attitude.
Since your Birthday is a day away treat yourself. Get out and do something you like movie..park is free. Maybe when you are gone your husband will miss you and wonder where you are. As for the brownies I literally just baked a batch. I subsitute hazelnut oil for margarine. Girl the house smells good, cant wait till they cool down.
Happy Bday
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
6 Jun 12
That sounds like a good ideal! I wish I had some more Brownies Yummy!!
@aartisaini (50)
• India
6 Jun 12
happy early birthday to you..
i am sorry that your husband is being roude to you...but i can really feel your pain as i am very attached to my husband and if i think being in your shoes i really get sacred..in my thinking if the realtionship of a husband and wife is not happy or is not at peace it must be so bisturbing for you...:(
but i think tommorow things will definately be different for you...i really wish that for atleast one day your husabnd will forget all the worries and will spend a quality time with you....:D
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
6 Jun 12
Thank you and tomorrow is Today and today he gave me a hug this morning and told me happy birthday
@aartisaini (50)
• India
7 Jun 12
hi...thats really nice....hope you had the great day....:)..my best wishes for you
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
5 Jun 12
Happy bday early!!! Have you tried asking your hubby what his problem is?? Tell him it hurts that he takes his anger out on you when you are not doing anything wrong!!!
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
5 Jun 12
Thanks and yes I have tried and tried talking to him and he seems okay for a minute then he starts again over and over.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
5 Jun 12
Last week when I went to the grocery store he told me not to buy any can foods because we had enough and not to buy any meat because he wanted to buy the meat at the Mexican grocery store lose to us which never happened and now he is throwing a fit because when he looks for something to eat it is hard to find something so Sunday I made him some brownies and yesterday I made homemade sugar cookies but he still was slamming doors? I did also cook him dinner but he was not even happy with that. I made meat loaf, corn on the cob and mashed potatoes and salad still not happy. Well I think I am going to stop cooking now because he does not seem to care anymore!
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
Happy bday friend..... Im sorry for what happening with your husband now seems the man is wants to be alone. Sometimes it is not good when we felt that we are left behind but we still keep our self around and beside them all the time just to please them and give them some soothing relief. I just observed when we do that they thought it is okay with us even they treat us like that. Because were still serving them the best food take care of them even they acted jerk to us, but if you realize it is not good. If i were you, go out tomorrow just for a relief from stress from him. Be with yourself if he has plan with your birthday that's more good for both of you. Just be sure that you enjoy your day.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
6 Jun 12
Thank you and today when he gave me a hug before he left to work and told me happy birthday I hope he stays nice when he gets home!
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
5 Jun 12
Happy early Birthday!
Sorry hubby is being not very pleasant to you. I wish I had an answer for you but we all go thru periods of stress where we are upset with our spouses and they at us because of things we can't always control.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
5 Jun 12
Thank you and I get it he is so frustrated over everything but there is nothing I can do about it and I guess it makes him more angry don't really know that for a fact but I am assuming it is all my fault!? he he he Don't care anymore if he is not happy he knows where the front and the back door is! Thanks and have a great day.
@penrockerchic (1903)
• Philippines
5 Jun 12
First of all I want to greet you happy birthday! It seems that there are some issues between you and your husband and these issues can be a little bit irritation on your part. Whether or not he will be a jerk again tomorrow, what you need to understand and think about is that you are blessed to have another year ahead and that you still have people around you that love and support you and I think that also includes your husband. It seems that you have been tolerating his actions and with this, since it's your birthday tomorrow, I think it's best if you just let this one slide and think of yourself and not what your husband might do to ruin your mood. There's been so much room for that already so tomorrow, all you have to do is to enjoy and be happy the best way you can.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
5 Jun 12
Thanks for the Happy Birthday tomorrow I think I am just going to ignore him he has had me crying for days and for nothing and I am just fed up to tell you the truth! But tomorrow you are right it will be my day he he he
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
26 Jun 12
All problems have solution like if there is a way there is a wheel.Our life here on earth is like a "stage play" everyday.Our real trials in life and daily problems are part of our roles. If we want to play successfully our role we have to do well our part by facing it all (kinds of problem). If we ran from our problems then we are coward and we could not perform well our role. I hope you get my idea...
The best solution to overcome the problem is to face it squarely.
Nice day ahead.
Mobhomeir here
062612 0938hrs
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
13 Jun 12
Oh my. That is so difficult. Just do not give up and have patience. Talk to him again so that both of you understand each other or if it does not work out, maybe your relatives will help you with your problem by telling them about your husband