right age to get married

I think the right time to get married is when you meet the right person and you've got your financial ducks in a row. Some people get married without seeming to have either of those things, but I've known quite a few extremely young (19) couples who did and are still happily married. I don't think there's a set age for everyone, it depends on you and your partner.

yes, i agree with you many people when married and did not consider he is able from financial and mentality aspect always make their marriage unhappy ..there are always conflict between of them...sometimes they are not aware when they did not consider marriage is not easy like they are still dating..there are rights and duty when they become a spouse..they had a rights from their spouse but they must fulfill their duty to their spouse..

for me, age is not important. what is important is that the people who wants to get married must be mentally ready and financially stable before they get married. if they are not, all sort of problems will arise in the future. that will lead to disharmony in marriage and finally divorce. i think that is why there are so many people getting divorce nowadays.

If you ask me, the right age to marry would be 25 and above. But this would depend on the stability of a person's job and maturity of mind. If a person is 25 or above but he/she is not mature enough to commit to a married life, raise a family, etc, then, that is not the best time for him/her to settle down. I did not really consider my age when I decided to get married. I thought of settling down when I have finished my college and have a job and most of all if I found the man I truly love. And I did. I finished college, got a job and met the man I love and we decide to get married after a year of being steady. It would also help if you pray a lot for wisdom so that you will be enlightened and guided in your decision.

Hi hestylim, we can marry when we are ready. The question here is when and how do we know if we are ready. My wife and I started as friends and we decided to move in almost 6 years ago. My wife is already on her late 20s. Though, I admit, we are not yet married yet but we will get there that's for sure. I think, our primary indicator that we are ready is our love for our partner. See, I'm hopelessly devoted to my wife and hoping to be with her for the rest of my life. Financial matters will always be a concern but money can be earned. The ceremony of marriage, per se, does not need to be expensive or extravagant. We are planning for a simple ceremony maybe next year.

Marriage has always been step taken by the bold meaning that you have to prepared, emotionally, mentally, psychologically and also financially. It is very good for one to understand the reason for him or her going into marriage so that on the long term, you can look back and not lament on the step that was taken. Getting married has a lot of differences in various part of the world. In Africa, you should be in late twenties and above before you can be seen to be ready for marriage being that you are regarded to be matured enough to handle the storms of marriage. But in western world, the perspective is totally different. Being 26 and not married also has to do with your gender and what feel about getting married irrespective of your financial. Marriage is not to be based on folks or peers getting married but whether you are fully ready as a grown individual. I think personally to get married for males can be from 28 years and above while females from 20 years above.

Any age is fine as long as a person has a stable income and can support the family. Even a 16 year old boy or a girl can marry the one they loved as long as they have money on their own and already knows how to be independent, and of course knows to be a responsible parent, but of course, there is a age requirement of what age do the couple should marry each other according to each country. For me, age does not matter as long as they know what they are doing, independent and have a stable income.

Hi hestylim, 26 is good age to get married but if you said that you're not ready financially and mentally may be you are right to hold the idea to get married. And if you think of having children it is good not to wait to long. Lets do the math, say if you get married at the age of 30 and your child is born a year after that you have to have the liking to bring your child outing and not feeling tired and bored to go to the park and when your child starts to talk and asking questions 'why this and that' make sure that you are in the mood always to give answers that could satisfy their mind or else they will keep on asking the same question. I wish you all the best and hopefully your partner can give you all the support financially, mentally and physically when you decided to get married.

It is a right age to get married when you can support yourself financially and mentally about marriage life...so that it depends on a person who wanna do married. Someone do when they are 18 but someone need more time and ready to get married whrn they are 40...

we had this discussion many times before. So I give you exactly the same answer: you are not ready for it since if you were you would not ask this question at all. Many people no matter what age are not capable to support themselves or a family (which are mostly men they leave the women with all the responsibilities) still they are married. If these are things you find important before you get married you should work on that or stay single.

There is no right age. You do it when you feel you want to do it. A family is about way more then money. Anyone can build a family as long as they have love to give to it. Yes money is a big part of life, but it's not hard to make some money. Even if its not a lot. You will always find a way to take care of your family. Unless you have people working against you and driving you out of your own childs life, and you are just a teenager and can't do anything about it. But thats probably rare.

hello hestylim i think the right age for marriage should be 25 to 27,thats my own personal opinion.

You are at the right age to get married, but don't rush it and be desperate just because your older than they are, when you find the right person it will happen. Get married when your ready :)

I agree with you,But it depends on how a person is perceived by love, It doesn't matter how old you are and when will you find love.I feel weird for someone who gets married and have kids during there teenage years 0_0

I don't think that there is any true right age to get married. when you feel your heart is in love and you want to spend every waking moment wih that person,it should not matter what age you are. Still it is a goo idea to be financially and emotionlly stable when committing the rest of your life to someone and marriage to them.

Marriage is so simple,finding the right one at the right time,marriage need courage and responsibility,donn't care about age,if you think you have the conditions of marriage,ok,get married.

I'm 24. I don't know but I can't imagine myself wanting to get married or having kids or building a family. Even when i was just a teenager it came to my mind that when i get to being adult marriage and family is not for me. But that doen't mean im a lesbian or what. Perhaps that's the reason why i didnt have any serious relationship.. i can let go so easily knowing that i wouldnt be the right one for him anyways since my dislike for marriage is much stronger than the desire to be with him forever.

It is sad to grow old alone, however, it is up to you. When, the right person comes along then you will know. Sometimes it's just by accident, nobody knows what's going to happen but there is one thing for sure in this world. Everything happens for a reason. So relax and enjoy what life offers you.