Where is your first love now?
By AngelaMarie
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
Philippines
June 5, 2012 9:42pm CST
Hi my fellow mylotters, I am happily married with my husband who loves, cares and always be there for me. I can't imagine myself living without my husband, he is my life and strength.
Last night I dont expect to dreamt a person from my past he was my first love. I saw him saying goodbye's and smiling. I dont know what does mean or it is just a dream. To be honest we had a good relationship and lots of good memories together. I know he loves me more that I do because for me that time it just only a play and not needed to be taken seriously. Since I am so young and stupid during that time I dumped him like he does to my cousin and never given a second chance. So I can say that my intention to him just to get revenge for my cousin but I dont expect to love him because he is kind and has a big heart.
After our realtionship we keep seeing each other since we have both circle of friends but never talked about our past relationship maybe because were already both involved in different relationship. He is working that time and I am still a student who has lots of dreams in life, I know with hard works and prayers I will become successful someday while he only wants to live a happy and simple life.
Few years later I graduated and moved here in the city. I got a good job and trying to achieve my dreams and never heard anything about him. Until one night, I saw him seating infront of the coffee shop in Greenbelt Makati Philippines, alone and waiting for his friend. I did notice him at first but when he talked to me I recognized his voice. I invited him over dinner at first he refused maybe he is shy or what but I insist and we did some little chat. He became very skinny, pale and sad. According to him he resigned from his worked and trying to get a job, and for the third time he asked me back. But I denied him because I know I dont deserved his love and care, he deserved someone better that me.
After that incident I never heard anything about him, I just wonder where is now? Does he fine or not? Does he has a family and how many kids does he have?
How about you my fellow mylotters? Do you know where is your first love now? And how is he? Does he has a family and kids too? Please share with us. Thank you! :)
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22 responses
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
My first love, which is also my boyfriend now LOL is doing okay 
we have been together for almost 8 years now and i admit we have had a lot, A LOT of ups and downs but really trying hard to wok it out. It is hard especially that he is far away from me. It is a long distance relationship and it has always been like that ever since the beginning. I just hope it lasts forever.
we have been together for almost 8 years now and i admit we have had a lot, A LOT of ups and downs but really trying hard to wok it out. It is hard especially that he is far away from me. It is a long distance relationship and it has always been like that ever since the beginning. I just hope it lasts forever.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
10 Aug 12
My first love is in the same city, but we don't connect with each other. I think it is good because that we have our own life.
@taura2p (349)
• Romania
22 Jun 12
I know about my first love. We are friends now, we go out and have fun together. I guess I have never forgot him completely. He has a girlfriend now, the girl he was with before we met. And we broke up because of her. I don't blame him, though it was very hard to me back then.
@ginspearl (209)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
I am also happily married for more that eight years now. Though there are always times that my past relationship, my first love comes into my dreams and let me think how he is right now? where he is right now?
Good to note we have internet now and we could easily browse and find persons we would like to find especially in social networking sites, and I am really glad I was able to find him through the net. And I am happy for him for he really has a great and happily married life now.
We haven't seen each other for many years now, and I wonder if he still knows me. though in my part I could say that I did not forget him and forever has a special part in my heart and life.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
Good thing that you know that he is okay right now and also happy like you. Thank you for sharing.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
26 Jul 12
My first love stays in the same city and works in a computer company. We don't communicate with each other. And when we see each other at some party, I just say hello to him . I only regard him as an very very very ordionary friend.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
31 Jul 12
I didn't hear anything from my first love since we broke up each other. He can't accept the fact that our love story ends. He doesn't have any good relationship with me as to my friends also. I also don't want to know how is he now for the sake of avoiding misunderstandings. I don't want him to think of a possibility that i still have feelings for him.I'm happy now being single.I'm still single waiting for the right guy in my life. We don't know in the future he is still the one destined to me.............
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
7 Jun 12
i am still some what friends with my first love and so is my hubby... He can be akward with me at times when he gets drunk he asks me why I ever broke up with him and all I say is dude it was so 15 years ago lol get over it!!!
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
That's was so cool! I think your pretty and nice that's the reason why he still asking you why you broke up with him and up to now he can't get over it. Thank you for sharing!
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
My first love??? I think I know where he lives right now. He lives in the same city where I am. When we had our University years, we lived in different cities. We weren't able to see each other that much until he already met someone who was near him and who could always be there for him through good times and bad. Now, we already live in the same city but he already has a daughter and a wife. They just got married this year but when we were still studying, he already had a daughter with her girl friend. Even though we live in the same city, I've never seen him here yet. I only see his photos with his family when I log-in in Facebook. I'm happy for him. I know that he already has a happy and contented life with the two girls he love, his wife and his daughter. :))
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
7 Jun 12
My first love was a grade school romance. i have no idea where that person is now. i have ften wondered about him and what my oife might be like now if he had stayed the love of my life. You you can never be sure what life will bring your way and what love can do. first loves are never forgotten. they are cherished memories to keep in your heart. i hope that my first love has everything he has wanted from life and i wish him well.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
You right first love is always be a first love and we never forgetten because the feelings was nice and funny when your young and in love for the firts time. Thank you for sharing. :)
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 12
hi there..
My first boyfriend is in my hometown. I think he has got a job and doing well.. and probably he has girlfriend already. It was very long time ago. He told me I am his first love. I know that he loved me and he treated me good.. but I didnt love him. So at the end I broke up with him after our 6-month-relationship.
My first love is with another guy I dated. He is married now and has two lovely kids already. I loved him since the first time I met him. We talked to each other on phone before we finally met. I needed 7-year-time to get over him..
and now, I am over him. I am now in a relationship with a guy that I love.. as much as I loved him before.. just different ways..
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
That's good, atleast you over him and you have a new love life. Thank you for sharing.
@Newyorker06 (79)
• United States
7 Jun 12
I haven't really had a first love more of long crushes but I really try to stay in touch with them because I don't see why we can;t be friends afterwards. However I have noticed that I kind of avoid or ignore them with out even thing about it. Any way my first "love" is here I still see him and the girl he currently is infatuated with and he seems fine from what I can see we haven't really talked for me to now more that that. I think that your first love is probably fine but I think that the person that is your first love never leaves you even when you find the person you truly want to spend the rest of your life with.
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
Hi Bhebelen14! My first love was so complicated back then. We have a 7-year full of happiness, lies and disappointments. We parted ways more than 15 years ago. Our relationship was so tough. I think, she has 2 kids already with 2 different father. I have no idea about her whereabouts but one thing for sure, I already learned my lessons. I'm happier now with my life more than before. I have everything now and I could not ask for more. I still have my dreams and aspirations to pursue but I'm working hard everyday and knowing that I have God, my wife, my family and loyal friends - anything can be possible. Past relationships can really help us to become wiser one way or the other
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
Hi Mikyung, its a good thing that you learned your lesson, you became happier and wiser into your life. I am very happy for you. Thank you for sharing. :)
@PoppaDave (438)
• United States
6 Jun 12
I found my first love when I was 15. I am now 46, and she is standing in the kitchen as we speak. Love is grand if you are willing to accept the fault of your partner and forgive, grow, cherish, strenthen, and build an ideal #1 thing. I love her 100% and wish only I could erase any bad times lost in all those days gone by. I aim o be the best and to improve every day.
I know it must be tough thinking about him,those are feeling that must be stored in your mind, but you have the world ahead of you and you seem to have it together now!I hope you have great days ahead.
@sekher1255 (26)
• India
6 Jun 12
I am very lucky on this matter... my first love is still with me and we are going nice together. we met around 5 years before and is in love for around 4 years. we love each other and we will marry with in 2 years.
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
My first love is a high school classmate of mine, although we got together after high school. Up to this day, I think we still have some love left for each other, but we've both accepted that we would never work out as a couple. Up to this day, we're friends and we both have different partners. Don't get me wrong when I say that we still love each other, I think that it's just something that that will never go away because we both care for each other.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
Youre right I do understand, maybe love might lost but the caring is always be there because at once they come part of our life. Thank you for sharing. :)
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
I never keep contact with ex-, so that i don't know any information more about them. I also have no intention to know about it, my current life is very good now, knowing about their life more may bring troubles to me...
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
6 Jun 12
hi Bhebelen, my first and my real love and the father of
my children has passed on,,,He need a liver transplant and
he never received it and he passed on...he was my very
first love from back in the 7th grade....we did years
apart and then we got back together, proposed on Christmas
and did the following year...It was one of the saddest
moments if my life....
That was about 15 years ago an life goes on.....
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
I am so sorry hear that but like you said life goes on. Thank you for sharing. :)
@ROCKHARISH3844 (395)
• India
6 Jun 12
My first love is now in Europe studying some higher courses. I never tried to contact her or meet her after our break up. from my friends i came to know that she is in another relation now. some times some memories of her comes to my mind and it hurts me alot. i never got in to another relation after that as i loved her alot.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
Hi ROCKHARISH3844, atleast you know where she is and what she's doing. You so sweet I feel that you really love her. Hope someday you will find someone to love you, or maybe someday you will be together if you really belong to each other, when the right time comes. Good luck.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
6 Jun 12
Hi bhebelen, I cant say its my first love..it would be more genuine to say it teen-age crush..I dont know from a long time where it is now, i did not ever tried to know about him..In fact, i cant even remember his face..:D I was never ever in any relationship before marriage, because i knew the fact very well, my parents would never accept it and i didn't want to do anything against my parents.
