It's ridiculous that i fell in love with a guy who has girlfriend.

For me, head over heart is the most important thing rather to use heart over mind. By using the mind set and practice it in our mind that we do not love that guy, through practice, day by day, you will forget that feelings you had for the guy. Meditation is good so that you could avoid falling in love for a guy

It's not ridiculous jricky1. It happens to most people. After all, love comes accidentally for some. When I was a bit younger, I fell in love with a guy who's already taken. I knew right from the start that he has a girlfriend and because I was so eager to be with him, I confessed to him everything. And I thought that we're going to have a happy ending. Unfortunately, he chose his girlfriend over me. Last year, we saw each other. It was an awkward moment because I'm already in a relationship. But few days after we bumped to each other, we became friends. Just recently, they broke up with his girlfriend and he's trying to be to me once again but I told him that he should win back his girlfriend again. Life's just a cycle. P.S. If possible, don't tell the guy that you like him. It will just complicate stuffs.

Sometime you just can't help who you fall in love with so don't beat yourself up over it. Well, you know that what you're feeling is wrong since this guy has a girlfriend already. I think that the best thing to do is not too fall any deeper. Try to walk away while you still can, you don't want to be the cause of their breakup. Just try to avoid the guy so it doesn't complicate things even more.

Well,that is really ridiculous and not good at all. He has a girlfriend and that means he is not free. Stop the feeling as early to avoid any problem and to avoid destroying a relationship.

I don't think it's ridiculous. From what I've heard, you girls are attracted to guys with gfs because they seem to be worth somethings if a girl keeps them close. Depends how much you like him. If you think it's just a crush let it go if not, make a move. Be careful not to end up being the other girl.

It's not ridiculous to fall in love with a guy who has a girlfriend as long as your not doing anything that can affects their relationship and as long as they don't know. Sometimes we can't control of feeling in terms of love but we can manage it. If you think its better to maintain your relationship to him as a friend the do it. In this life there a lot of things that might happens, you might be supprised if one day he will see and love you back. But if not be patience and wait for the right guy for you when the right time comes. :)

That is definitely difficult to fall in love with someone who belongs to someone already. But of course it can happen to almost anyone. We all have feelings and when love walks in, it does not excuse anyone. But since you know that it wrong, then might as well walk away while it is still early. People will get hurt and friends may become enemies.

Sometimes even getting involved with a brother's friend can be bad, regardless of if the person has a girlfriend or not. I think that it's best to steer clear of dating a brother's friend because if things get awkward between you and the guy, or if you were to break up then well, it could be bad with the relationship between your brother and the other guy. Involving yourself with a guy who has a girlfriend can also be bad.

I don't think that is ridiculous. You cannot command to your heart, you cannot stop yourself from loving someone just like that. If you manage to be friends with him, that would be very nice, but it may take a great determination and you should know exactly what you want to do in this respect. Analyze if you have chances with him or not. If you do, go for it.

Its not ridiculous. Loving someone is not ridiculous. At least that guy isnt married. you still have hope. its good to love but there are lines that you must risk if you want it fulfilled. its up to you if you want to maintain friendship. though its a difficult decision...try and see if you are totally ready to breech the fine line between friendship and romantic love. unlike me, all I can ever do is love the guy from afar and slowly regain my old self. I just realized that Im in love with a guy who's already married (he's separated BTW)i cry because my love will never be realized. all i can ever be to him is a friend. regardless of the fact that he likes me too.