I Hate My Best Friend ....

You are absolutely right.Getting hurt by someone close to us hurts more.This is not only when you are hurt by your best friend.Sometimes we get hurt by our brothers whom we love so much.I would like to make it clear by a simile.If you hit a piece of wood with an iron rod,it would not generate much sound.But if you hit a piece of iron with an iron rod,it would sound louder.The iron rod is closer to the piece of iron, because both are made of iron,so the latter cries louder when it gets hit by an iron rod.But the piece of wood is not close to the iron rod.So when it is hit by the iron rod,it does cry,but not that loudly.Similarly when we get betrayed or hurt by our best friend,we cry with unbearable pain.

I'm sorry to hear that! I have many friends. And I love them much. So, I can't understand what I would o if one of them betrayed me...Calm down to think carefully about your friendship. God luck!

Hi there, when it comes to friendship if you already considered him as your bestfriend then I think you need to talk to him about the problem, i dont know whats the problem between you and your bestfriend, could it be just misunderstanding between you and your bestfriend? you stated that when he made little mistake its mean so much for you, well I cannot say anything but remember that he is only human like you and human may make mistake. try to put your self in his shoes, if you made little mistake and he blamed you as a traitor would you like it? I believe when we proclaimed that someone is our best friend then we have better understanding to the person than the other friends, so try to talk the problem with your friend. Or probably you dont actually consider him as your bestfriend but you expect him too much, to be your shadow.

Do you really hate your best friend? Or do you hate yourself because you feel betrayed and did not notice? Thought your friend would never do that to you?

its always hard when we are betrayed by a person close to us because you expect so much from them, hopefully its not that serious that you can make up if you want to.

Up to some extent your observation is right but then you cannot simply hate her because she did differ with you on any thing in particular. See you are still calling her your best friend so that is simply showing your views about them. Cheers.

If you hated your best friend he is not your friend, because for me I defined a best friend like a sister or a brother to me. Even sometimes we have differences but we can fix it soon. But as you referring to your best friend that you hated, it seem your not both true to being a good friend. Best friend can understand each other even you have fights still you can compromise and forgive each other.

That is true, but not all the time. It says, your best friend might be your greatest enemy, but there are some people that are best friends are still forever best friends even if one of them commit mistakes. They still easily forgiven so that their relationship as a best friend would not be broken and so, if you hate your best friend, think the times where you have a good time with her and talk to her in a nice way because communication is the best way to fix a broken relationship.