It is sooooo weird....

its man opinions maybe do you think only woman need an attention? man need it too ryanong and his brain can conclude your answer

Maybe he just wanted to know how much you love him. When he say "ok, at least I know" meaning- he is trying to figure out from your response how much you love him- how much he means to you. You said "if he is not your husband you won't cry" - which I don't think so. Even if the person, especially your boyfriend is not yet your husband- you will surely cry.

I would not consider a chat/discussion like this as being foolish. If you would have give me this answer I would think you don't love me. There are plenty of people who don't cry if their partner is dying and plenty who cry if other people are dying. Crying/shedding tears is a way to give it all a place (although it's not the same for everyone). It's something you can not control. It has nothing to do with the kind of relationship you have with someone but with your own feelings. If you are able to cry when it is wanted (only if he is your husband) your feelings are, to my opinion, not for real but fake. You do it so the society can see you are sad. If I were your bf your respons would make me think, wonder and who knows I would even decide to end the relationship.

Hi ryanong, It is not really weird dear. It's just normal for boyfriends to ask that question. It's just some random question they thought when they see their girl crying over someone. They just want to know how important they are to you.