A guy love a girl older than him...Does this exist??

Malaysia
June 6, 2012 9:15pm CST
Nowadays its can be seen that a guy love a girl older than him, Is that you think, wrong in relationship? Sometime it is hard to prevent loving even a possible relationship , What you think?
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23 responses
7 Jun 12
yes its exist. i knew some of my friends marrying a guy older than them. i think age doesn't matter as long as they love each other. I heard from them that they like older than them because they already know how to handle the relationship. others also it depends on there intentions like they're just using the girl.
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• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
I agree, lucia. Thank for joining.
8 Jun 12
Sure, it exist. I think love has nothing to do with age.
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Love doesn't getting old actually, lol. Have a nice day.
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
8 Jun 12
I think love is very ok, but comes to marraige there may be a lot of problem. Here in my country, many men will get married with women older than them in rural area, for they think it can bring richness to the home. But to many women, they want to get married with the men a little older than them, so they can get the feeling of safety. In usually, women are easier to become old than men, so married with young guys will give women great pressure in their middle age.
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
Nice information from you, Most of women might be think like what you said above. Thanks for joining.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 12
well.. it is more normal to a girl loves a lot older mam than for a man to love a girl whom is lot older.. but however things happened. When you fall in love with someone you cannot say why you love him or her.. you cannot explain why.. all you know is you love him/her.. you cannot choose who you will fall in love to..
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
I really wanna say share with you something that, if a person love because of any special of her sure the love can be burst out. Actually the heart start to owned someone heart without our conscious.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
It is possible because in love age does not matter. Though we can't deny the fact that age matters for many people. And so people will say or criticize such relationship. But for me, as long as they love each other, without any bad intention, then why bother with other people will say.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
I think we just follow what our heart says and keep the heart enrich with love only. More people are living peaceful and being a good role model.
• United States
8 Jun 12
Well I guess if you aren't a celebrity such as Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher it could work. Ha ha no seriously. I kind of knew this wouldn't work. Even though I think he loved her I think he wasn't ready to settle down with one person and realized that when he was 50 she would be 65. That can be very sobering to someone. But I think the older you are the chance gets higher that it will work because the younger person doesn't look at it as giving up their youth. A fifteen year age difference of 40 and 55 might have a better chance of surviving.
• Malaysia
9 Jun 12
You just mentioned the responses with a good example, The age doesn't decide everything, but the heart could. Have a nice day.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Jun 12
Wait, "now a days" I thought this happened all the time, a long time ago and even now. Yes, it's possible. We can't tell our heart what to think or who to fall for, it just happens. I don't believe it's wrong to love or admire someone older or younger then you, in the eyes of the law in some cases it is however.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
I think admire comes first and then love. What you think about this?
• India
7 Jun 12
Yeah it is very common these days. Most cases are where both are classmates, fall in love and ultimately find out that the girl is elder. This is really a worst case!! Especially in India, love is not yet accepted as it is. You can imagine how it would be if the girl is elder!! But you can't help it. You can never control your heart when it comes to love.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Yeah, love can be control. It is automatically blossom in someone's heart anytime and anywhere.
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@douiya (66)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 12
i guess nothing wrong with that, love knows no boundaries.. as long as their love not harmfull to society. i think thats okay
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Harmless love.
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
As the saying goes, "age doesn't matter" and Yes it does exist. For me there's nothing wrong about it if it's true and pure love. If happiness is there then go be together. Love is love, it has its mysterious ways of capturing one's heart.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Love owned its desire heart only. Might be don't want to return easily. Am i right?
@swapmind (355)
• Australia
7 Jun 12
Love is an eternal emotion and is never bound by age parameters.Love cut-across physical looks and age.Usually it seems like a norm in many countries that a girl should be younger than a guy in terms of an acceptable couple.But it can also be considered as a setup designed by the society in order to carry patriarchal setups where a male is needed to be more mature than his wife .Now days things are different with the educated youth who are more open with a wide range of priorities in picking up a life-partner and merely age figures cannot curb the decisions.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Nice from you swapmind, However love can be hold and of course a kind of expression.
@Erickie (20)
7 Jun 12
Age is nothing but a number. Jack wilshere is a reknown footballer who is a dad to Archie while the mom is older than jack.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
ohh,. Arsenal's young player, Jack wilshere.
• Indonesia
7 Jun 12
Yes it is exist. Some of my friends have a girlfriends who were older than a guy. Even some of them are married. I think that's not a big problem as long as they can cover each other and take the advantage. What distinguishes with other ordinary pair is just the maturity. And the rumor is, women will get older faster than man. Sometimes the problem is that when faced something, an older woman from her partner will feel more experienced, more mature, or more powerful. This often makes the pair failed. But as long as they can understand each other more, and never blame their difference age, the couple will remain lasting and enduring. :)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
This is how a couple love each other, and doesn't involve age. Yeah, you're right girl get older fast later.
@aribdee (133)
• United States
7 Jun 12
Yes it does exist and no, it is not wrong. We cannot teach our heart on whom to love and whom to hate. :)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Yeah, love can be hold or protect by fence around, hehe.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
Well, yes if you do ask me.. i do not find this rather unusual... I think it is actually happening with more and more people..
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Yes, any where.
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
7 Jun 12
Hi: The problem with disparity in age is the waning out of the commitment, especially on the part of the boy who begins to see his mother in his older partner. Another reason for the attraction is the unconscious desire of the man towards finding an alternate mother but it does not last long for the relationship is an altogether different ball game. There's nothing wrong with the whole arrangement as long it last but basing upon on most of what I have witnessed, the guy would always go for a younger partner as the other one begins to show some signs of aging. Not for me, my wife is younger than me by ten years.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Nice experience from you, Rog.
• Indonesia
7 Jun 12
Yes I think it is exist, it is depends on the couples how do they manage their relationship. Here i know a girl who married to a guy who is 7 years younger than her but their marriage is still exist until now, they have 3 adorable kids, the girl doesnt looks older than the guy. When it is comes to maturity, we cannot measure it with age. some guys maybe younger in age but they are being mature and able to understand the girls even if the girl is much older than him.
• Malaysia
7 Jun 12
Owh, mature is priority in these cases, Yeah some are very mature and not same as their age lor.
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
I don't see anything wrong with that, really. Even my own mother is 4 years older than mg dad. And they've been married for morethan 30 years now. When you love and care for someone, nothing is impossible. Age should never be an issue at all. That would be the least of the concern.
• Malaysia
7 Jun 12
This is an good example, near to the topics. Your mom and dad, hmm.
• India
7 Jun 12
This is not something happening nowadays but ever since human civilization. Any one at any age can fall for any one else at any age anytime. Most of us remember falling for our teachers in kindergarten school. That is what love is about. No body has completely deciphered the mysteries and chemistry of love because its source is divine.
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
Yes, heart don't know age only know love. This is why i think most of people love each other and ignore the age.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Jun 12
Yes it's exist my sister in-laws and mother in-law are one of them. I think there's nothing wrong with that as long as they happy and love each other. For my own observation I admit that older women are more responsible than young women in terms of taking care of their family and in maintaining a relationship to their husband I saw that in my mother in law. She is doing everything to maintain the family intact and making sure that everything is fine. Lastly you can't control and teach your heart to love even if its older or younger to you. :)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 12
Yes bhebelen, This is how they happy and love each other. I really agree with you. Love is all the answer.