I am in danger. Please help.

I suggest contacting your local law enforcement and trying to get a restraining order or something similar. If she can't approach you or your family she can't cause issues between you and your fiance. Also, make sure you've told your fiance about her; it wouldn't be good to keep something like this from her.

Here in America we call that stalking and there are laws against it. Can your local police do anything about her? Like someone else said, hire guards for your wedding and if she does show up she won't get in. People like her develop a fixation on one person and think they can overcome all the person's relationships--sometimes they will hurt the one their obsession loves. So it's important that you get the law involved in this.

Oh my..sounds scary. I am sure you have already done it but I would block every thing to her that I could. As far as her coming to your home...you might have to be ugly to her when she comes and tell her you are to be married and you are not interested in her. I hope you have it settled by now.

Hiya shibs, What a strange situation for you shibs. If needs be we will all stand up for you and say what this other Lady has been doing. Have you checked on your FB profile to make sure you have not put anything on there that could lead her directly to you. I mean I don´t know what you have put because all I see is your profile and nothing else. Talk with your Fiancee and explain to her what is going on with that Woman and she will surely stand strong with you and support you. You need to do this now today and not leave it any longer. Don´t be afraid to tell her as it´s your future and hers that are in the balance so to speak. Being honest about the other one says and intends will put her on your side. How on earth did she find your new Home? That is what has got me worried about the two of you. Hope she listens and understands she really does need to know now and not after shibs like some others have mentioned too. I let something similar go on ages ago when I had just got married this guy wanted me to me up with him in Birmingham and to sell all of my poems to him. I can tell you it was really weird too as there was no internet then and I never gave out my phone number either. My Husband got on the Phone and told him to get lost and to never phone again unless he wanted to end up in the Police Station. He was ringing me at all hours but I had done nothing either I did not know who he was where he came from nothing. I had never met him even. So you see you need to stop this right now good luck you are smart and you will know what to do. My Poems did not get published but I got rid of that silly nit that was pestering me at all hours. He talked like he was in love with me lol how can you love someone you have never even met? xxx

Hi mamu...I think you should find that link first and read my response (if I did respond, quite unsure). After that, return back here, and hre is my response to your discussion (assuming you read my earlier response on that link) - Not Anymore... Short and Simple. You have misused all your opportunities for whatever reasons best known to you. You still dont seem to be confident in saying NO. That is the problem, not that girl. You mention she arrived at your new place... how come and what did you do at that time? Must have entertained that guest which was wrong. You are getting married this September, so you have to decide and stick to your decision, be a man, and stop being a kid. Sorry, I might sound harsh but then dear, I have to say what I want to, and what I feel is right, not to impress you by saying - I am sorry and blah blah blah... Take care

Again the same. You have to avoid her by any means. How did she find your new house? Just find the link which connects your activities to her. If you avoid that person, she will be kept in distance for some days. Later after your marriage she would not definitely disturb you. In the same time, explain about this to your fiance. It will protect you from future problems if about to occur (I wish no problem should occur there.)

The best you could do is to tell yoor bride so that she knows exactly what this is about. That woman must be insane. I suppose that you cannot get police help, but if you can, do it.

Why not tell her a.k.a sms that you have no intention of being with her any longer? If that won't take her out of your back, tell her frankly not to follow you anymore. Or did you try all of this already?

I suggest that you nip it in the bud by informing your prospective bride about it lest this girl should cause problems for you at a later date.

Oh no! A threat... well, just push her away if she couldn't understand the situation. Sometimes there are people whose indifferent and had to be treated differently too.

I thought someone is threatening to kill you or someone asking for ransom. You're NOT in DANGER, my friend. You just have to confront this like it or not. A problem here is you exchange contact info with her. Next time she call you, you tell her to stop calling, simple. If she keeps calling, then change your phone number (maybe it's easy for me to say). There's always a way, but you just have to deal with it. Talk it out with your friends (your circle of friends around you) that you are comfortable with.

Hi shibham, Just have a cup (mug) of coffee. prefer Hot as it might get rid off the headache. Pass on her number to me, i'll tell her whe'll be in danger if she didn't leave you. One more way you have is call her from a new sim (of your own but keep the talk recorded), explain her that you are getting married with is/will be loyal towards your wife/life and she should better keep out of this friendship/relationship. Dont think of this girl anymore and get on with shopping. Take care and have a nice time.

It seems that it is very hard to get rid of this woman. I suggest that you move from where your living to another new place. Make sure that you change your telephone number and all other contact that you may have given to her like emails. You never know she might be planning to appear during your wedding like "the other woman" just to mess your wedding up. Have you informed your fiancee about all this? You should make sure that she know all what is happening so that she can be prepared for any eventuality.

Hi shibham,first of all,distance yourself from this woman.Then tell her that you are going to be married and you are not least interested in her.Sounds blunt,but it is necessary.She can't harm you,because you have no physical relations with her.Then tell your would-be wife about her and let your parents and elders know about all this development.Summon courage to be rude to her.This is the only way out and it's sure shot.

Just avoid her and let her meet your lady love. Or maybe you knew some of her friends and tell her that you are getting married. Tell your wife that girl so it will not worsen things.

I just don't understand why are you in danger...in danger of what?...you are the only one who know that!if she came to your place say[ as you say] 3/4 month ago she did know your address right? so....how else can she find you? and now you have a headache? it serve you right! don't make promise you can't keep

You wrote in one of the comments that you have already told your future wife about the other girl, but I think that you also need to tell her about the problems that you experience at the moment. Tell her that the other girl stalks you so that your future wife doesn't misunderstand the situation and thinks that you are interested in the other girl. You ask why the other girl follows you when she knows that you are getting married, but your wedding might be the exact reason why she follows you now. She probably still hopes that she has a chance, and she wants to make you interested in her before you get married to someone else. You have to make it very clear to her that a relationship between you and her is out of the question and that you are getting married to someone else. If you only ignore her messages, she might not understand that you aren't interested. Talk to her again and don't be too polite or sugarcoat your words. Tell her that you are getting married to someone else and ask her directly to leave you alone.

Since you don't have contact with her ignore it and stop getting a headache about it. You are getting married to someone else so the only thing you should do is tell her someone you once spoke to by the internet is stalking you. It's easy to delete a fb account, take an other email address plus phone number. BTW even if you did promise her something once, it doesn't mean you have to keep that promise if the situation is changing.

I do not think she is a psycho. Its your kindness letting her believe that you got feelings for her. She doesn't feel that you do have any strong relationship with your wife, After all was you who said the first dislikes. If you want to get rid of her just ignore her. Sooner or later she will not disturb you.

hi you are really in a big problem . if this thing is heard by your wife your life will be in danger so the correct solution is you just change your contact number . it is better . other wise tell her in a cool and pleasant manner in which she would understand and leave you . if you have still headache take headache removal pills.