"Losing my Identity, being Hypocrite"
By nitz_godinez
@nitz_godinez (62)
Philippines
June 8, 2012 3:45am CST
Why is it very hard to please anybody???Yes, I am trying to be the image that majority would ask for,but how can I? I am already projecting a self that in reality this is no longer "me" as in my personal trademark. Its just like that I am losing my identity just to leave-up with the expectations of others...is this right? It seems that I am no longer honest to myself much more than to others.
Have you tried the same situation like this? Oh know..please help..advise please..
Thanks
3 responses
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
9 Nov 12
If you were creating yourself, what kind of person would you be?
Don't answer that in-writing; answer in action, BECOMING the kind of person you would want to be.
If someone important to you doesn't like that kind of person, find out why. If you can understand why they don't like that person, maybe you can see why you should change again (or -why you should stay exactly the same.)
@adorablelucia82 (91)
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12 Jun 12
that's not right my dear nitz, be true to yourself, if there is someone can't accept your real personality , who cares. stay as what you are as long as you are doing right. you don't need them anyway.
@Mashnn (4501)
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8 Jun 12
Unfortunately trying to be someone else just to please people won't last for long. You better get yourself back and start being yourself. I have learned to love myself and I won't change anything just to fit in a certain situation. I believe if you cannot accept the way I am, then you better look for someone else and leave me alone peacefully.
