'Who's been saying?'

Sometimes i take a look at the profile picture of the one who started a discussion, when it seems of a strong emotional turmoil. However, what they have are just avatars not their real picture. So, to know him more i would go to his profile and try to get to know him more through his discussions and the responses he gives. That way, i get a glimpse of the person speaking.

In fact life, I usually focus both: words and who's been saying. However, there is a bit different when we're online. Avatar and user can't express all who's been saying. So, I usually focus on words. I sometimes will focus on "Human" with some friends who I communicate for a long time and I know them very much.

It depends when the discussion she/he started is apply to her I would look the one who is talking but sometimes it doesn't matter to me. Normally if I read some respond-er to my discussion and I think her answer somehow disrespectful I looked at her profile if he is quite older to me. But sometimes the age did not saw in the profile. I like to address person who is much older to me so that's why I looked at their ages in their profile to address them properly.

Most of the time I just pay attention to eh discussion. But sometimes, specially when I have read several posts by the same person, I am biased by the mental picture I have of him/her.

I do pay attention to images. Sometimes the image may look so innocent/pityful that I am left to wonder what might be going on in the life of the owner of the image.

sometimes ,yes it does mateer,but sometimes you just eed to take light ,you dont need to bother out for those things,you just need to ignore and deviate your mind to something else which isnt linked to him/her and its the only thing that you enjoy!!!!