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@ShereMubashir (50)
India
June 8, 2012 7:16am CST
have you ever fallen in love,
then read down my story and you will be like this shoudnt had happen
i am a brave guy,i had many crushes i let them be crushes,and never approached them,i just leave it on my fate,when one day when the girl i did had a crush approached me and she proposed me ,we fall in relation ,and everythng was going just very perfect ,when one day she suddenly broke out with me ,and i am heart broken .i needed space ,i was surrounded by smokers , i controlled myself from smoking and dint broke my trust to ma mum n dad,i wanted to fall in love with one girl and maintained her for life long untill my death and wanted her to make my wife,i even told my mum,bro ,sis ,except dad, we are on long distance relationship since 3 months ,and i even send her valentine gift abroad and then later on one day she just inboxes me and say that i just wana quit our relation ,then one day i came to know that she broke with me cause of another boy,what shall i do now and then i forgot her,but i just wana have advice from you people so that i get free from it,.....now i have no emotions and space left for he even though she returns back to,....now i just wana be single and give all my love to ma futre wife.....so does all girls do like that ,just playing out woth someones heart
do advice???
heart broken
but after i have been ditched i realised that how much time i have been wasted and thought a bright future is been waiting for me
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7 responses
@aribdee (133)
• United States
9 Jun 12
No, not all girls are the same. Everyone is unique, everything happens for a reason man. Maybe it's not yet your time to be in a relationship but my advice for you is NEVER ever close your heart even if you are broken. One the right time you will find the girl of your life. Don't rush for love it will come on the right time and on the right place. By the time you found that right girl. You know what to do because you had experienced heart breaks. Good luck man
@jhelaimlim (102)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
many guys are still like aribdee ... just glad that we know someone like him now here in mylot.
and you have a very good advice.
i do our heart broken friend would listen to you aribdee..
@IAmNena (178)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Im so sorry to hear that ShereMubashir.
My advice to for now is to go on with your life as single.And while you wait for your future wife,Why not enjoy life and get a hobby.Go out,Be happy, make friends,use your spare time to be happy and forget about that girl who dumped you over another guy.If she really loves you,Then she won't look for another guy so just forget her and while you enjoy your life, you will eventually meet your future wife.
@ShereMubashir (50)
• India
9 Jun 12
thanks for your suggestin nene,ya i am gona stay single,and gona be happy and enjoy my lifetime ,being happy,but usally get ended being alone at home,so thats why i always end up on her thought and sleep out,so do you have any way to be happy
@khare_1005 (1310)
• India
9 Jun 12
hello SherMubashir,
your story is sad but it has a lesson in it. now a days only a very few people realize worth of having true love. most of the people get carried away easily and there feelings and emotions are not strong enough to withstand test of time. long distance relationship holds a lot of drawbacks and your relationship suffered from the same. but now when you are single and are no longer interested in that person, it means you are looking forward for future prospects. you need to me more practical now and should be concentrating more on your carrier as you already have wasted much of time in a worthless relationship. we all fall victim of such relationships at one point of time in our lives, but those who can gather themselves again and stand tall are true warriors and true humans. 
@ladyhemingway (965)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Hello ShereMubashir, I am so sorry to hear about your experience. But please bare in mind that experiences like these are just ways to make us stronger. Maybe it is your fate telling you that there is more beautiful things to come so you should not despair. Also, not all girls are like that. There will be someone that will come along which is really meant for you.
Experiences like that are hard at first but believe me, you will get through it just as long as you decided to. You will be okay and the right girl will come at the right time. Accept what had happened to you and take it as a lesson instead of basking on the feeling of being broken hearted.
At the right time, the right person will come along. The one who deserve your love and the one who can give you as mush love as you deserve. Cheer up 
@jhelaimlim (102)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
nice advice ladyhemingway ... this kind of experiences will always makes us more stronger.
ShereMubashir, read ladys advice. and do cheer up.
@redfoxph323 (31)
• Philippines
8 Jul 12
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@bLadeee (403)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Kinda sad story, one of my friend is like that but worst, he didn't have a chance to be in a relationship with a girl but always rejected. After being rejected, he's life change, smoking, drinking, etc. I can only tell that a true love waits, don't rush it. There will come a time where you'll meet the one for your life. The lesson is, no matter how many times you rejected (in my case of my friend), break with someone, or something bad happened, it is not too late to stand up and continue. For now, don't think about what happened to your life negatively but make it as an inspiration while moving forward. I'am sure there'll come a time where you can met the girl for your life, just know her well first.
@ShereMubashir (50)
• India
9 Jun 12
hhhmmmm.....i guessssss just need to wait ...i dont need to be in hurry...............and be busy in differnt things,i just need to be focused on my career
@jhelaimlim (102)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
having a long distance relationships are really so hard but the good part is it wont be that hard to forget about her.
i know you are heart broken but i know you are also a strong person to forget someone who don't deserve your love. be happy, have a hobby and be with friends. soon that someone will come to your life. you can do it. just be strong. :D
