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You should run a good communication. It's one of the keys in building a good relationship.

Maybe you are overreacting a bit. However, I can understand you completely. I am very jealous myself, but I think it is more important that you have a relationship and you get along very well than anything else. Men usually chat with all kinds of girls, but that does not mean cheatting or that they love us less.

I think you should talked to him and discuss your feeling to me at the same time asked him about that girl. He might cheated on you or you might mistaken him but the best thing to do is to asked him and let him explained for what you saw. Better not to judge him quickly so that you fixed everything. I understand you feelings right now, walking out is a initial reaction of a girlfriend when they saw their boyfriend talking to the other girls with looking unconscious in your presence. By the way did your boyfriend asked you why you leave during that time? I am hoping that your relationship with your boyfriend is fine right now.

Hi sreehma,I think you should have a face -to- face talk with your BF.Listen his explanation.But you can not believe all words he said,keep cool so that you can think over this matter correctly.If he really cheated you,just leave him.Time proves all.You can overcome his absence. Best wishes for you!

I do not think he is cheating on you and you shouldnt have been so quick to react. Give him a chance to explain.

Your decision was due to your anger and emotion. It is not advisable to take actions when you are too angry or happy. Settle down, take time to think and review your past actions. Besides, chatting to a girl does not necessarily mean that he cheated on you. That girl might be his relative or and old friend. In addition, you also mentioned you have no secrets with each other, I can then conclude that the level of your trust for him is intense. That trust should be continued and be restored by means of a calm and peaceful communication.

I think you have a talk with your boyfriend and tell what you like and what you do not like with your boyfriend. I think most probably your boyfriend will understand what you are feeling. I think most probably you might have mistaken and I do not think there is a problem in chatting or talking with other girls.

The best thing to do is talking to him and sorting it out as quickly as possible. Just explain him everything. If he loves you or ever loved you, he will agree to you. Hurry up, the longer you take the harder it becomes.

u said u have no secrets between the two of u, yet there it is! i could all the maybe's in the world but one would never know the truth unless u talk it out with him. i could tell u love him very much and im sure(if he doesn't fell what u feel...ill kick his sorry self lol! only kidding)he felt weird when he saw u seeing him talk to another girl. talk it out with him and get to the bottom of this before its too late. u dont want to break up with a great person and im sure nither of u want to break off a good thing because u assume this or that. it could all be a misunderstanding. TALK TO HIM *wink*wink u'll sleep better once u do

First of all: if you only meet in great places like the beach, parks and coffee houses I wonder how long and how good you know eachother. Secondly: your bf did not hide what he was doing, was not doing anything secretely. I wonder how come you don't appreciate his openness about that.

in my opinion you should defensively go and talk to him and tell him you felt really bad,when he was with an another girl...well who knows maybe you were the one who was mistaken maybe it was his cousin or long forgotten friend came for a visit..you should just open your heart and talk... let it flow.....you should pull yourself together....may god bless you both.

Maybe you should calm down and find a proper time and a suitabe place to talk to your boyfriend.You should give your boyfriend a chance to explain what happen.Maybe you just really mistaken him( i really hope so!!!!)or it's true ,but whatever the result is,you have the rigrt to figure out it. I wish you happy everyday.

You said you were both open minded? First thing is don't judge him first. Maybe he is just chatting to someone and don't want you to see that he is chatting with other girls. But, if he is really chatting then you must confront him and tell how you feel. By this way you can express all you want to say. Just don't make any decisions when you're angry because you might regret it.