Will my baby be ok?

United States
June 8, 2012 2:43pm CST
The one thing that is really making me nervous about my new baby is the question of will she be able to walk. The reason I ask this, is because of the simple fact when i was a child, my mom said that i had to wear those Forest Gump braces on my legs. And my child is only one, she crawls around alot and moving pretty well, but when i try to walk her, my mom says thats the same way my legs used to do. She wont get off her tippy toes, and they like point inward some kind of way. Everytime she goes for her check ups or has to got to the doctor, they say that its probably to early to determine. But she has advanced alot, but i am just worried that she wont be able to walk for a while, i was 5 when i was able to walk with out the braces. I dont know what it is called, but it makes me nervous tho!
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@AmbiePam (93738)
• United States
11 Jun 12
One of my little cousins had this problem. Come to find out it was an issue wit his hamstrings. I mean you could not get that boy to NOT walk on tip toes. So they saw a physical therapist who showed them exercises to help stretch the muscles. It was something apparently his dad had a problem with too. Hopefully, your daughter won't have any trouble, and if she does, maybe it will be something easily fixable.
• United States
11 Jun 12
i hope its not a real issue and i am jus over reacting. But the fact she walks on her tip toes isnt what scares me. Because thats a good thing, at least she trying. im jus going off what my mom told me, so i hope it all works out and my mom was jus paranoid for no reason. But thanks Ambie!
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
10 Jun 12
Ask your pediatrician to refer you to orthopedics for a review. If there is a problem, the sooner it is treated, the sooner it will be corrected.
• United States
10 Jun 12
Well she goes to her one year appointment next month, so i will bring it up again then. And see what they have to say. So until then, i will jus enjoy carrying her juicy self around...!
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 12
I think it's still too young to tell, your baby is still very young! Though some kids can start walking at very young age, different baby develops differently. Even a child who hasn't start walking when he's one and a half year old is still very common. I just think it'd be good not to force her to walk, when she is ready, she will just have the desire to walk, unless when she grows older, and she still doesn't show to interest to walk. I understand mothers are always nervous and concern about the development of the child, we need to learn to be relax too, because the child can feel the anxiety and nervous within us, and it may affect them too.
• United States
10 Jun 12
Im her father! but thanks for the info!
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Don't be that worried. As you said the doctor told you that it's too early to determine that. But if you really cannot be pacified by what that doctor said, probably you could bring her to another doctor for second opinion. But if she will have the same path of growth of you, then be assured that she can walk too as you did, though a bit delayed. Just pray that it won't happen to her, my friend.
• United States
10 Jun 12
I understand, but i wouldnt worry and it would have never crossed my mind but i remembered my mom always telling the story of me not being able to walk. I somewhat remember those trips to the doctor! But like when i stand her up..she can stand on her own, but its like her legs just look funny when she is doing it, and one day, my mom was like..thats jus how you were when you were a baby. And Im a Taurus and you know we freak out when things dont go as planned. so im dealing with it..thanks!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 Jun 12
I don't read anywhere the age of your child. I also don't read anything that concerns me about the fact why our child should not be able to walk. Some kids do crawl a lot, others never do that. Some start walking from one moment to an other, others dont care (esp not if they are great in crawling). Since you can walk (no matter if it is with or without braces) I don't understand why you are worrying about that all. Why don't you just enjoy her and wait how she develops. Why making problems who don't exist at the moment at all. What your mother says or might think to recognize doesn't mean it's exactly the same as it was with you. Kids who don't like to walk always stay on their toes... my eldest daughter never crawled, stand up at the age of 1, she walked on her toes for nearly 4 years, after that she quit with that but it always looked to me as if she walked like a duck, she also was very clumsy falling over her own feet still falling from the stairs frequently. Now she is a great model walking catwalks, She never had braces, therapy or so, I never was worried about the fact she would not be able to walk or walk normal. If there is really something wrong I am sure the doctor will tell. I think you are only damaging more by forcint your daughter to walk now. BTW my son never crawled either but he started walking way later (talking he did not till the age of 4.5, same as my eldest daughter).
• United States
10 Jun 12
thanks for your input..but as i said, i was only concerned for the simple fact if i need to prepare for it or is it just me being paranoid. And yes i did start to walk eventually, but things like that make you feel different from everyone else. So i jus dont want her to go thru that..thats all, but if she does, i know its Gods will.
@dobsyto (298)
• Bulgaria
8 Jun 12
Well if you had this kind of a problem in the past so it is not unusual to be and with your kid. Yeah it is not normal for the kids to start walking so soon but like you said you started walking when you was 5. So I think that everything will be fine and don't have to worry about it so much. However you can ask your parents how they helped you and you could try to help your kid by the same way but you can wait at least one year and than try this :)
• United States
8 Jun 12
well she will turn one in a couple of days. and the other kids that are in her class at day care are all around 10-16 months and they are all walking. there is only one child there other than her that isnt walking. I think his problem is he is just lazy and they hold him all the time(thats wat the teacher said). But i think it would be wise to research that a little more to see whats going on.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
8 Jun 12
hi lafred, I am so sorry you are worrying about the future of your child being able to walk...I just want to say that I can't say I went though that but I have had children and I know what its like to have those concerns about children, I would suggest that you take you child to another doctor just for a second opinion and to perhaps to ease your mind. I would think that if your child had something that would eventually cause him to be delayed in walking that your pediatrician would be able to do some type of test, blood test or something...I mean what test did your Mom have done on you.. Good luck and I hoep your chid will actually be find...It sounds like you turned out to be a very concerning person..do what you need to do./..
• United States
9 Jun 12
I would trust your doctors and they know more about your child than the people here so take what I say even with a grain of salt because my child is not yours. But my second child was a late walker. I didn't rush him. He walked a little awkwardly after one but by one and a half he was fine. My one relative had a kid with turned in feet and they had to buy him special shoes for a year that he had to sleep in but after that he was fine. He still looks a little pigeon toed as an adult but he can walk perfectly fine. Trust your doctors, if they aren't doing anything for her yet they probably aren't particularly concerned and that's a good thing.
@vanate29 (53)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
I understand how you feel now. I'm a mother too and i couldn't imagine putting myself on your shoes. Must be very hard for you. Don't be too worried about it. Probably a second opinion will help. For now,whatever and how big the problem is, be strong for your child. Let's hope for the best.