he's just creeping me out!

@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
June 8, 2012 6:51pm CST
The girl I work with (the one who Dad tells her what to do and expects me to drive her) shows up to pick ip her paycheque. He comes up behind me and grabs my side like to tickle me. Maybe its just me but I don't touch people like that unless I really know the person. He then stood there talking to me trying to get information of me so his daughter needs a job. The entire time he stareing at my b-obs. I was trying to ignore him so he would leave. I'm always here by myself so I told my boss about it and how uncomfortable I felt and how I'm here by myself.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
9 Jun 12
That is just horrible! I'd feel very uncomfortable around him from here on out and stay away from him as much as possible. I wonder if the man's wife knows that he does this kind of thing. I know some men are like that, stare at a woman's boobs, and some even "tickle" you but it doesn't make it right. He doesn't know you, and he's old enough to be your father.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
9 Jun 12
I felt uncomfortable around him before just gives me the creeps this just added to it. I mean guys stare and all even old men but try to make it less obvious haha. I mean I've caught my boss but he's trying not to look. But not man unless I know them tickles someone I mean I've had friends or so on but not a coworkers Dad who I barely know. He is old enough to be my Dad his daughter is a year or two younger than me.
@Morgus (14)
• Denmark
9 Jun 12
That's really creepy, you did the right thing by telling your boss about it!
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
9 Jun 12
I'm always there by myself, and who's knows what he is thinking or would do. I mean sure if all he was looking was staring at my boobs but once he touched me that was the end of that.
@randy2611 (134)
• United States
9 Jun 12
I can't imagine that isolation and sort of fear, since you want to tell him, "GIVE ME SPACE FREAK!" but i'm sure you are trying to be mature and stay professional at work right? i'm not sure of your work environment but maybe you could seek passersby to just kind of be in the area store? while he is around? heck I might even ask a homeless person to hangout in the store or the doorway, patrons and the creepy guy seeing others are around might make him think twice??? And never forget children are real deterrents with that, he might think about how kids are sponges they talk a lot and might even ask alot of questions, tell a lot of things, examples:Kid: "Hey mister why are you tickling her, why,why,why" at the very least maybe he will leave annoyed :-) And maybe if possible get any conversations recorded with a phone or digital recorder? this will back up many claims you have. never back down or allow him to think it's ever ok if you feel it's not. and one more thing some folks think that mimicking the uncomfortable action will make that person stop like if he touched your arm you touch his... no that might actually give him and excuse or a reason as to his actions towards you??? Just stand your ground.
@Kojigirl (188)
9 Jun 12
You have more self control than I do. Someone did that to me when I was at uni and I punched him in the face. Hard enough to make his nose bleed. Then I told him that if he ever tried to grab me again I intended to aim a lot lower.
• Slovenia
9 Jun 12
Sounds creepy indeed! Telling your boss was absolutely the right move, he should do something about it. You should feel comfortable at your work place.
• United States
9 Jun 12
Have you tried talking to the person one on one? Why not tell her directly that you don't like the way she acts.
@GardenGerty (160996)
• United States
9 Jun 12
Why did she not pick up her own pay check? We now know why he insists you should pick his daughter up. He wants contact and wants to be familiar with you. I hate situations like that. What did your boss say?
@lenapoo (678)
• United States
9 Jun 12
Letting your boss know that you don't feel comfortable in that particular situation is right, but also you really should talk with the actual person that was tickling your side. I mean seriously being that he doesn't even know you in a familiar way he shouldn't be playing with you in that way. It can very well be offense and disrespectful and at times embarrassing. Let this person know that you don't play around like that and you would greatly appreciate him not doing things like that to you anymore. If it continues you make have to seriously converse with your employer and take further actions.
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Jun 12
That is really creepy! I would not feel comfortable with that either. It would be different if he was a friend of yours or something. But since he isn't a friend I don't blame you for telling your boss. I would have too. I do not like creepy guys like that, I have met a few myself in the past and it worried me whenever they came around me...