you're not perfect!!

Hi there, I understand your situation. I too had the same experience with this kind of people when they think they know better of my life than I do, and humiliate me or the choice of my life. I know im not perfect, i made a lof of mistakes in my life but I like to learn from my mistakes and not repeat it in the future, try to humiliate me or try to embarass me wont make me respect them. Im pretty welcome to every advice or suggestion but I hope people giving their advice wisefuly, not by pointed out my mistakes and use it to humiliate me. I think there is a big difference between people who sincerely give advices and people who actually mocking us but pretending that they are give an advice. These people think by mocking us it could make them look better than us, but it is not. I also know some people who always critize my life and compared it to their own life, they would look down at us when we dont choose to live the way they live their life. I would simply say "suppose if you wear shoes sizes 37 and the other wear sizes 38, would you force other to wear size 37 because you think size 37 is the most perfect size. this life doesnt work this way, everyone have their own life their own way to live their life. so what you think is good for you, its not always good for other people" Im welcoming everyone who give advice and suggestion but in the end Im the one who decide which solution I will take.

of course every people had shortcomings..we are not perfect maybe she or he forgot that they are only human being i think the best way for handling with this situation, don`t interact too much with the people like that

Do not get me wrong but I can say that I have a lot more things known more than you know,yet I do not like to humiliate you or anyone because I know many things.I have to teach those who do not know and keep myself humble and not be greedy to tell anyone what to do so that they would be not committing another mistake.I have been doing things to other for help but also other people I have been helping before do not know to to appreciate what I have done to them.I wish you would also help others who needed some help that you know.Happy myLotting!!!!